The boat of relationships is broken by family life. I very often hear that many women in their families are very tired of their “female” responsibilities. It’s quite difficult for me to talk about the attitude of men themselves towards household responsibilities. But, I want to talk about women’s responsibilities in a couple. Very often these same responsibilities include washing, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and…. much more. But men’s responsibility doesn’t seem to be visible. Although this is definitely an illusion. But not about men yet. And about us dear women, and our attitude towards these very household chores. I was thinking about this question, and this is what came to my mind. In a family, things are distributed for a reason. And by nature, people instinctively distributed everything correctly. Now I’ll share my thoughts, and it’s up to you to decide whether to accept it or not. So, a woman is definitely more emotional than a man, and experiences her emotions quite violently. It is enough for a man to immerse himself in his thoughts, but a woman needs an outburst. And here, I think, cleaning helps. When a man doesn’t want to discuss a problem that’s been bothering him from his wife’s point of view, but he needs to throw out his emotions, the woman takes a magic rag and brush, and the house is transformed. And my soul becomes lighter. It was as if she had removed and combed the thoughts and feelings inside herself. I put everything on the shelves. And I don’t really want to swear anymore, and my thoughts went in a different direction, and something settled down evenly inside. This is how the magic of cleaning works. I think women deal with anxiety the same way. But what about laundry?! I think that when I do laundry, I wash away unnecessary untidy stains, and keep not only the house clean, but also the inside. And when I hang up this clean laundry, I calm down internally and consider how great it is when it’s clean. It’s as if I’m reminding myself that problems are just my reaction to an event, and the event itself is neutral. As for cooking. This is the most unique process. Not only can you show your creativity, which is extremely important for a woman, but also convey your love. After all, words cannot always be heard, perceived, or somehow accurately conveyed. But doing something for your loved ones is always visible. Let's imagine dinner. This is the time when it is possible for everyone to gather around the table. Arrange the cutlery beautifully and somehow decorate the table. Well, or just get together. And by arranging food on plates to show respect, and joint conversations at the table, and the dishes that you prepare with love are like a holiday. And a little about the process of ironing clothes - it’s like a metaphor for smoothing out uneven surfaces. That is, all the folds can be smoothed out, smoothed out, and now, a shirt for him to wear to work is beautiful, a dress for himself for a walk is just wonderful, and the children’s things are so sweet and smell just wonderful. When we stand at the ironing board, like sorceresses we transform some internal and external roughness. We invite coziness and comfort, peace and tranquility into your home. So, responsibilities in the family are not just a routine - they are evolutionarily thought-out mechanisms that are given to help. Of course, we get tired, of course, we get bored, but that’s if you treat these things as a routine. But if you look at homework creatively with an understanding of the meaning of your actions, you can see how you can create harmony out of something ordinary and boring. And our inner mood will change for the better. And most importantly: a very important woman’s responsibility is to take care of herself and her inner well-being. After all, if a woman is unhappy and dissatisfied, then comfort in the house is disturbed, tension increases, quarrels and conflicts occur much more often. But a satisfied woman is capable of a sweet chirp, and not a gloomy grumble, she can flutter like a bird, and not hiss and crawl. Take care of yourself, dear women. As for the duties of a man. After all, the most important thing is when a man understands what makes a woman happy. And this is his main responsibility. For men, everything is more global. The main male responsibility in the family is to move mountains for.