Question: Who am I really? This is not just a question, it is a reflection on my own identity, about what I live for. In this article I offer you 9 questions through which you can get to know yourself better and perhaps understand who you or who you really are. Wanting to be someone else is losing yourself. Kurt Cobain It is better to answer questions in writing so that you can return to the answers in the future. How would you describe yourself in three words (for example, meeting someone)? Remember, these are just three words about you, so try to answer honestly. If a relationship or job makes you unhappy, do you leave or believe that things can still change? This question has to do with your coping strategies, your values, priorities and boundaries. What is your value system? For example, sacrifice, love, loyalty, honesty, etc. What is your purpose in life? Your answer will most likely have to do with the meaning you give to life. For example, I live for children, love, celebrities, etc. Don't rush to answer; finding a goal is not so easy. If you were able to answer this question, ask yourself: why is this goal so important to me? Are you able to change someone's life? This question is about empathy for others, about your self-confidence, about your desire to contribute to the life of another person. You can find out about what envy and pride does to a person in this article: You can Is it possible to envy for the benefit of yourself and others? Do you know how to be grateful? Are you a person who appreciates things? Are you grateful for what you have or are you more focused on what you don't have? What difficulties have changed you or your life? Going through trials, a person changes. Difficulties can harden us, make us stronger, or vice versa, make us more vulnerable. What would you like people to say about you in ten or twenty years? The answer will help you discover your deepest desires, what you crave, and the impact you would like to have on the lives of others. What are you most proud of? It could be a phrase spoken at the right moment, an achievement in sports, or a purchase of something. Self-discovery is a journey that lasts a lifetime. Therefore, self-reflection questions asked through your inner dialogue can help you understand your path and your identity. If you click on the “say thank you” button under the article, add a comment or share, I will be glad! If you are faced with a difficult life situation, sign up for a consultation via WhatsApp, Telegram +79136223873. I will be happy to help you.