Is there something that you have wanted for a long time, but still don’t have? It could be something simple. You asked, but your man didn't take it seriously. He promised, but he keeps making excuses. Or he just doesn't want to. Yes, today and tomorrow I will tell you what options for requests there are, which of them are more effective and which requests are doomed to failure. Usual options: - Hints. You hint at your desire, and the answer is silence. And you may interpret his reaction as a lack of love for you. Saying to yourself: “If I loved you, I would remember.” Is this so? Answer: “Not always.” He may just be busy with his own problems. He may consider it your whims. Etc. As a rule, this method is doomed to failure. - Suggestion in the form of advice. This is a good method if you don’t know what you want and you just need advice. But if you know exactly what you want, then there may be a failure, he may not support you. - Trying to convince him. These can be different reasons, arguments, reasoning. Sometimes it works, but more often it causes the opposite reaction. Sometimes a man is even ready to agree, but says “no” automatically in order to maintain his position. - Demand. Sometimes a woman, desperate to get what she wants, goes on the offensive. Under pressure, a man can certainly agree. But it can launch a retaliatory offensive. And this will lead to quarrels, arguments, and often the woman loses. A demanding attitude will not make him want to do anything for you. You can certainly give up and stop asking your husband, which happens quite often. You begin to do without his help, not wanting to face obstacles, with his unwillingness. But! If you stop making requests for what is important to you, you will gradually begin to feel very resentful. Remembering that he is not treating you fairly. Should you give up? What do you think? Don't give up. And that's why. The essence of a relationship between a man and a woman is to satisfy each other's needs and desires. Instead of stopping asking, learn how to do it correctly. And by trying, you will gradually find your own ways and methods. And tomorrow I will suggest some of them.