Of course! And where would we be without it? As they say: “Do you want to understand the essence of the problem and its causes? Look at the generic program and you will understand all the cause-and-effect relationships!” There is no need to go into the wilds for examples - everything is nearby, on the surface. You need to want and not be lazy, and flatly refuse resistance. There should be no delay in such a question. And here are the promised examples. Let's start with real requests from clients. 1) “My daughter is probably crazy. She is only 14, and she started talking about the fact that she has a different orientation. We should see a psychologist or go straight to a psychiatrist? Of course, her father left me when he found out that a girl would be born and not a boy, but that doesn’t play any role?” or 2) “After my mother’s death, my dad raised me, and he raised me like a boy. . It’s cool - I absolutely know how to do everything myself, I’m successful in my career, the only problem is that I can’t get married. Yes, in principle I agree to cohabitation, but all the men leave me for the “pink fairies.” , it’s such a shame, because I’m 1000 times better than them..." and the most common of all3) "Dad and mom dreamed of a son, they came up with a name for him in their stomach - Vasily, but everything changed in one minute - Vasilisa was born, i.e. e. - I. From now on I can’t help but work, I can’t help but carry everything in the house on myself, I can’t get pregnant, I can’t afford tenderness and cuteness. This is contradictory to me. I compete with myself or my husband all the time, because I unconsciously want to confirm the opposite - it’s good to be a woman too! But the man in me wins, he is Vasily..." Then there are tears, tears, a lot of tears. And a very rare example from practice that happens, but in this case - mine4) My pregnancy was late. There were also difficulties with it a lot, as after birth. But this is not the main thing in this material. Another thing is important - dad was expecting a daughter. Back in 1972, there were no ultrasound machines and no one knew the sex of the child before his birth. They mainly relied on the signs of their grandmothers. belly. Mom talked about how my expectation happened - how the birth of a miracle for dad... However, something went wrong. The birth was very difficult and I was born on time, but with severe asphyxia, having swallowed amniotic fluid, all over. blue because the umbilical cord was entwined and tightened all over his body. And here is the voice of the doctors - congratulations, my son was born! Mom was happy about everything, but the nurse shouted this news to dad through the window and he fell into real shock, even got drunk out of grief. By the end of the day, he was informed of the actual state of affairs and disappointment gave way to indescribable happiness. So throughout his life, his love was deep, sincere, came from the very heart and for this I am very grateful. How did this affect the program? Very simple - I am happy to be a woman, to be in this body, to speak in a calm voice, to approach everything with wisdom, wear clothes, take care of yourself and your home, do something nice for loved ones, cook deliciously, engage in hobbies, be inspired by all the beautiful things that I contemplate in the outside world. And at the same time, approach all work issues with common sense and a reasonable male mind. I am very grateful to my parents for everything, even the painful and difficult ones, accepting this experience unconditionally. The main essence of the program’s question is not about the gender of the child at all. The main thing is to want, do everything necessary for this and wait for your continuation in the baby without expectations of a son or daughter (or unconditionally accept the gender reported on the ultrasound). Let it be simply the fruit of love, endowed with good health, and then the baby will go through his entire life with ease, with the right to choose and freedom to make his own decisions! What could be better? I would be grateful for your feedback if the essence of the article resonates with you! Your psychologist, Katerina Agafonova