Parenting requires us to be creative. The world is changing, and with it you need to change yourself, find new methods of education. Today we will talk about raising girls. The issue of raising girls is becoming increasingly relevant. We often see unpleasant pictures - girls smoking, swearing, insulting others and each other, behaving rudely and harshly. Recently, class teachers have also paid attention to this. They increasingly note the discriminatory attitude of girls towards boys in grades 7-9, that is, during the active period of puberty, when differences in the formation of social roles are especially visible. If previously girls humiliated the opposite sex verbally, now they make aggressive attacks on boys, beat them, and display a style of forceful behavior that is not characteristic of their gender. Most girls talk about boys with words like "morons", "crazy" and so on. In addition, girls fight equally with boys, defending their own opinions. Of course, the school cannot be blamed for the current situation. It is known that the child’s psyche, behavioral patterns, moral and social attitudes: all this is formed in the family. In a complete family, a child, together with adults, experiences this relationship every day and clearly sees the pattern of behavior (sometimes good, sometimes bad) of the opposite sex towards his own. At the same time, he creates a model of his own behavior. What can a family do to raise a teenage girl? Let us highlight the following recommendations: The most difficult path, but the most effective, is to change your own style of behavior. Parents should show a more respectful style of behavior towards each other, exclude insults, especially those related to gender: phrases like: “all men are goats or all women are fools.” These phrases unconsciously instill in children either disdain and anger towards the opposite sex, or rejection of your own gender. Demonstrate the ability to negotiate and share household responsibilities. Both parents (especially dads) need to establish a dialogue with the girls about their appearance. Moreover, refrain from empty criticism of hairstyles or clothes, on the contrary, give compliments and offer your help in choosing a clothing style. Don’t be offended by the refusal, talk again. Show interest in her appearance, mood, actions. Girls need support and a guarantee that she can always count on you. Talk about the movie you saw, the life situation of your friends and family, give your assessment of the reasons for what happened. troubles with someone and, conversely, happy events. Ban on physical punishment. On the contrary, kindly stroking the shoulders, arm, and hugging the shoulders are recommended as a sign of approval or joy for the daughter’s achievements. After all, this is how self-esteem is formed. By following all the recommendations or making attempts to follow them, we become more flexible in our parental behavior, establish interactions with our children and create good conditions for our girls to be happier and more successful in the future.