At one of the last consultations, the client said: “He doesn’t pay enough attention to me. He doesn’t give, and I don’t ask.” Let's figure out how to establish contact. Men sometimes mean something global by the attention that women need: travel, huge bouquets of flowers, expensive gifts. All this, of course, is great, but girls sometimes mean something completely different. What does it mean for a girl to “pay attention”? There are many options here: - Banal, but sometimes very necessary questions during the day: “How are you? What are you doing? How are you feeling?” - A gentle kiss on the threshold before leaving for work, - Interest and sometimes help in her hobby, - A small gift for no reason. For example, fashionable socks or one rose, - A note left on the refrigerator with warm wishes. These seem to be simple and understandable things, but here’s the catch: in order to get something you need to ask for it. Don't you want to ask? Then sit there hungry. There is a fantasy that people are able to read the minds of others and anticipate needs. However, I will remind you once again that people cannot read minds. Men understand direct requests well. If you lack attention, then say so directly, but without complaints, please. For example, if you want a hug, come up and ask: “Darling, hug me, please. I miss this so much,” if you want new perfume, say openly: “Darling, please give me new Tom Ford Lost Cherry perfume.” Don't wait for him to figure it out. He won't guess. There is no shame in asking. In a healthy relationship, requests are handled appropriately. But if your man does not respond to requests, then you should think about why you need such a man. I'll tell you one more secret. Girls, take the initiative. Did you hear about the new establishment? Invite your man to go there. Has the movie you've been waiting for been released? The mechanism is the same - “Darling, let’s go to the movies?” Learn to express feelings, emotions and requests openly and without pretension. If you have any difficulties with this, please contact me - I will be glad to help you. Even more useful articles on my Instagram * - * Instagram belongs to Meta, which is recognized as an extremist organization in Russia.