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From the author: The topic is inspired by dialogues on the forum. Truth is the compliance of the rules of the world with the rules of the world of the Gods. Truth - yes to the rules. Therefore, our ancestors, when resolving a controversial issue, looked at which side was more consistent with the right, and then considered it to be true. This was as objective as possible, because we were talking about the degree of truthfulness. One opinion could contain part of the truth and part of personal vision. In fact, the truth is the same for everyone, everyone justifies themselves in their own way, why they cannot correspond to the truth. Accepting the truth is not always easy because the truth is not always easy and pleasant. This is how our ancestors lived. We have within us the ability to feel the truth. The heart responds to it, warmth appears in the chest. The shoulders straighten, an inner smile and agreement appear. It is sad that many have lost the skill of straight-knowledge - the ability to check information with their hearts. The word “truth” itself evokes a response within a person, which is why it has been so actively used by politicians at all times. I remember the time of the USSR, there were all sorts of truths, the Komsomol and the polar and just the truth. Now you can hear something like this from psychologists about the truth: Truth and lies differ only in fairy tales, but in reality, everyone interprets events to the best of their own knowledge and experience. In everyday life, we consider facts in a context that is familiar to us and therefore close to the truth. But as soon as we fall out of context, we immediately find ourselves in a zone of uncertainty. It is not true that there are only true and false statements, and there is no third option. That is, the truth becomes personal experience, personal knowledge, such truth is completely subjective and the use of the word “truth” in this version is very doubtful. It is probably wiser to say - this is my personal opinion, and not presented as truth. When a personal opinion is presented as the truth, which does not imply other options, this is rather banal rudeness as a lack of communicative competence. Many are proud of the fact that they “cut the truth in the womb”, without thinking at all that they are cutting the truth at the root - in the womb, where it could to develop beautifully and be born. To cut the truth from the womb is to kill the truth. In any action there is form and content. To get a beautiful result, the form and content must be harmonious with each other. You should be able to present the truth. The truth should be wrapped up like a coat, and not thrown in your face like a glove challenging you to a duel. This is well reflected in the parable “The Padishah’s Dream.” The padishah had a terrible dream in which all his teeth fell out one after another. He called the dream interpreter to him. He listened to him and said: O sir! This is a sad omen. You will lose all your relatives one by one. The padishah became angry and ordered the interpreter to be executed and another to be brought in. Another interpreter, after listening to the dream, said: Lord, this is a lucky sign! You will outlive all your relatives. The padishah ordered to reward the second interpreter. One of the courtiers was very surprised and asked the interpreter: “You told the padishah the same thing.” Why was your predecessor executed and you were awarded? Yes, we interpreted the dream in the same way. But the point is not what you say, but how you say it. Therefore, if you want to tell the truth, then take care of how to present it beautifully, if, of course, you want to maintain a relationship with the person to whom you are conveying the truth. Second the moment in contact with the truth is its appropriateness. Are words of truth always appropriate in the context of communication? Not always. Sometimes, however, something inappropriately expressed can give rise to conflict. Let's simulate the situation. Morning, you are all sleepy and shaggy, crawling out of bed. Your man says to you as you go: wow, you’re so shaggy like a witch. You will be more likely to find this truth unpleasant. I give an example as mild as possible, because in reality the words can be harsher. You should be able to convey the truth in such a way that you want to live up to it. I remembered a situation at the beginning of family life. I fried the potatoes, they all fell apart and turned from straws into porridge. Husband (chef)!