HOW TO GET MARRIED AFTER 30? This question worries many women who have spent too much time in the “girls”. While you were studying, building your career, traveling and simply enjoying life, your friends and peers long ago acquired husbands, mothers-in-law and gave birth to children. And now they are all vying with each other to try to introduce you to their “club of married housewives”, woo the first acquaintances you come across, actively monitor your personal (albeit lonely) life, and regularly inform you about potential suitors. And mom. Her reminders that at this age she already had a husband and seven people in her shops were already quite boring. And it's true. All this is terribly annoying, annoying and... frightening. What if you really don’t manage to get married? Well, for starters, don’t panic. It should be admitted that you don’t need to get married at all. How so? And like this! Young, “green”, romantic girls want to get married, and an adult, sensible woman like you wants to create a strong family with a good and reliable man. Therefore, you don’t need anyone. The first thing you need to do is DETERMINE FOR YOURSELF WHAT MAN YOU NEED to create a family, with whom you want to go hand in hand. And also identify those qualities of a man that you are categorically unacceptable. For example, you will never put up with domestic violence or alcoholism. Take a pen and notebook and describe in detail the qualities of your future husband. Thoughts written down on paper tend to materialize much faster. Even if you don’t believe in this, then analyzing the character of your desired chosen one still won’t hurt. But remember that you don’t need to have too high demands on your gentleman; in principle, many shortcomings can be forgiven simply by getting used to each other and having mutual respect. Secondly TAKE CARE OF YOUR APPEARANCE, FIGURE AND HEALTH! It is important to always be well-groomed and tidy - this is the main beauty of a woman. It’s not your facial features or hair length that are important, what’s important is the ability to present yourself in a favorable light. There is beauty in every woman, the main thing is to highlight it correctly. But beauty alone is not enough for a man to want to marry you. As often happens - a beauty, an ideal figure, but not married, and there are no special offers. Or an attractive girl (simply attractive!), but the life of the party, a cheerful person and a laugher, a Friend with a capital F - everyone is vying with each other to take her as his wife. So it turns out that beauty comes in different forms. External beauty, not warmed by the soul, does not make much of an impression, only in the first minutes, and then everything disappears. But spiritual beauty, dressed in a well-groomed body, impresses on the spot, and for a long time. Therefore, third, CONSTANTLY DEVELOP. You need to think not about how to attract male attention, but about how to become the one who will attract this attention. For this get rid of complexes, fears and insecurities. If you have limiting beliefs in your subconscious, such as• All men are idiots (goats, liars, etc.)• Men do not want to get married and take on obligations• All decent men are already married• Woman I shouldn’t take the first step • My age prevents me from getting married • Men only want sex • I don’t deserve happiness (love, family, etc.) then it is necessary to get rid of these attitudes. Such attitudes may be instilled by your parents, social or personal negative experiences. Very often, mothers who have unsuccessfully married try to protect their daughter from such mistakes, instilling in her that there is nothing good in marriage. Or having failed in love once, a woman will be afraid and avoid close relationships in every possible way in the future. The pitfalls are that such limiting beliefs and programs are often not recognized. This is expressed in the fact that there is a desire to meet love and get married, but this does not happen in life. In this case, a psychologist or psychotherapist can help you. Sometimes it is enough to change a few of these settings to get married quickly. The same goes for feelings of insecurity and fear. It is important to know that harmonious people attract!