How does this happen? The husband becomes infantile, and we are responsible for everything. To understand, I suggest looking at the topic from this angle: what guides a woman in a relationship, what feelings, emotions, states does her husband read? Let’s start with the fact that we are biologically created to give a birth to a baby. At the same time, we are physically weaker than men - this is a fact. In such a position and with the task of continuing the family line, preserving the offspring, we have a lot of anxiety. Plus hormonal fluctuations during pregnancy, before women's days, during menopause, because of which even more fears pile up. A woman is a bundle of fears! It will work out - it won’t work out, right - wrong, but where did he go, and why did he do it? In contrast to dangers, a woman has built-in care: about her child, about her family, about there being peace in the world, etc. Because Caring is a way of control, when you think that you are in control of what is happening. And when a woman is a bundle of fears, she begins to take maximum care of someone or is looking for someone to take care of. Caring is the flip side of fear, it’s a coin that has two sides: I’m afraid → I control → I hide control behind care. Now imagine how relationships usually develop. First, falling in love - and the woman begins to take maximum care of her man. And then care turns into a form of constant control. And what control is for a man is a lack of faith in him. After all, in order for a man to succeed, he needs feats, he must somehow prove in society that he can do something! And then the closest relative, whom he fell in love with, whom he laughs sexually, for whom he is ready to do something, suddenly doesn’t believe it. And a figurative, emotional castration of men occurs. A man understands that he is worthless, control deprives him of social and creative activity. I once discussed why in religious movements the role of a woman is somehow belittled. Because with such a desire to control, she actually becomes an intra-family demon! The man becomes a recumbent infantile who hands over the reins to her in everything. And she begins to be even more afraid: the more responsibility, the more fears, the more she needs to keep everything under control - a vicious circle! How does it open? Remember the state of falling in love that we each experienced. A woman strives to fall in love because at the moment of falling in love she believes in her man! Biochemistry occurs in her, with which she relaxes, and it is impossible to be afraid. That’s why women strive to watch some series, films associated with wonderful feelings - she watches and believes that someday this will happen to her again. And she will meet the one who can take her in his arms and she will stop being afraid. Intuitively, a woman is drawn to this method of solution, but... again it’s not the same, again he betrayed her, again everything is on her shoulders. The working method is different! The main thing to do is to work with your fears. What triggers us the most and is our fear? The path is quite long, but I know a good catalyst for the process: working with essential oils. Essential oils themselves help very well in terms of psycho-emotional balancing of a person. I have a good guide on developing emotional intelligence, where I give 15 emotions + which essential oils work with this or that emotion, i.e. how you can manage yourself. In such a “regulated” state, it is much easier to work with your beliefs and again begin to look at your man as God. When she looks at her man as God, he does everything for her, she becomes a goddess for him! And at this moment she can relax. I am also a woman, I am also afraid of many things. But thanks to essential oils, I can control it. Now, for example, I am breathing vetiver - a wonderful aroma that grounds, relaxes, and gives a feeling of stability. Guide to developing emotional intelligence >>>> https://clck.ru/39GyvS