From the author: The English word Quest means “challenge, search, adventure.” In any quest room, visitors will find a game in which they need to find something: a key to the front door, a map, a solution to a fictitious mystery, a treasure, or something else. In any case, an adventure awaits you there. The quest itself, in its episodic form, is really useful. Traveling to another city or country is always a quest. Getting a new job is always a quest called adaptation to a new team. But when a person is immersed in ego. exists in a lack of love energy, there is no feeling of presence in one’s own life. there is no love and joy. And you really want to feel the taste of life...Learn to love yourself and be in joy? You have to work on your life. work with yourself. It is boring, difficult and uninteresting, and often time-consuming and painful. And I really want to become happy quickly. The quest format seems ideal for this. Probably everyone knows how good it is to get a dose of adrenaline. But only a few know what happens when this hormone is released into the blood too often. Too frequent surges can lead (except for adrenaline addiction) to diseases of the cardiovascular system, vestibular system, mental exhaustion (due to excessive consumption of nerve cells) , reducing the level of calcium in the body, as well as other useful substances, which during a quest situation are consumed irrationally and unevenly. Surely everyone who experienced a surge of adrenaline did not like its “aftertaste”: the body becomes lethargic, sleepy, and tired. The easiest way to get rid of a “hangover” is to get a new dose and return to a state of euphoria. And so the circle closes. The constant desire to “keep yourself in good shape”, the development of adrenaline addiction overshadows all other areas of life, including work, communication and family. The need for adrenaline becomes almost irresistible - such a “drug addict”, although he does not feel withdrawal, gets used to adrenaline on a psychological and physiological level. And this is much more complicated than physical attachment. Quest as a lifestyle is very popular with people who are psychologically immature, stuck at the psychological age of a teenager, in the archetypal roles of “Witch” and “Protector.” The essence of the relationship between a man and a woman in these roles is of a passive-aggressive nature, filled with charm, intrigue, gossip, jealousy, showdowns, fights, surveillance, stormy scandals, a sea of ​​​​tears and emotions full of contradictions - “it’s very cool, then it’s face on the asphalt.” It turns out that sadomasochistic alliance, with a constant change of roles between partners. Against the background of maximum adrenaline (in the form of psychological pain and fear), an elementary normal state (which is natural for a loving person) is perceived as euphoria, a state of happiness. Therefore, people who are immersed in ego. a state of happiness lasts a moment, a moment, hence many different sayings about it. This is the moment of culmination in the psychological quest of the relationship in this couple. This is a dependent relationship that is clearly not about love. For a person who knows how to love himself, happiness is the natural state of every day, from which he starts in any of his endeavors or creations. The exit from the “quest” format of life is at the same place as the entrance. The first and most significant thing is to honestly accept the fact that your relationship is not love. Dependent relationships are called love addiction, love addiction. Love addiction is no less dangerous and destructive than physical addiction. By accepting the fact that relationships are not love, you allow yourself to make a choice in favor of Love, not drug addiction. Before building a new relationship, you should learn to love yourself and be happy. Then you gain the opportunity to meet a similar, healthy person who knows how to love, enjoy life not in contrast to pain and fear, but simply give joy to the world. Live playfully and happily. and don’t play around with life!! Love and joy to you!! Have a bright autumn!!! I will" ))