Quite often, clients come to me with the problem of betrayal. For example, here’s the following situation (in the female version). “It seems to me that my husband is cheating on me... everything is normal in life, but one small BUT bothers me... He is a busy man and always decides questions on the phone, mostly speaks in front of me, and for the last 2-3 months he goes somewhere else or completely on the street. I recently noticed a certain “Zhenya Moscow 2019💋” among his friends, by the way, in 2019 he was in Moscow, at home because of problems in the family, and I stayed in Volgograd. What should I do? How can I let him know that I am very worried, and that changing this is not good, and this should not be the case in our family, when I am trying so hard for him. Will he worry if I voice my suspicions to him?” But the second option is the answer of an “experienced” man with his own views on betrayal; from my practice as a psychologist-sexologist, I note that this is often exactly what happens.” Devulya, a man often does not regulate such concepts as “betrayal” or “loyalty” - it regulates more property issues and issues of raising children, this goes beyond his scope if he sins with this. In fact, your, I hope already ex-boyfriend, did not cheat on you, but to himself and his choice. He caused you mental pain, but personally this doesn’t make him cold or hot, because he doesn’t feel your pain. All traitors behave this way, regardless of gender, until they are treated the same way .In many ways it doesn’t matter to him. The sooner you realize this, the easier it will be for you to reach a state of balance. People are selfish (you too) and no one can guarantee that you will not do the same or worse." WHAT SHOULD YOU PAY ATTENTION Love may well be finite. No one must love forever, unless this love develops into a strong connection. Sometimes a person has the following program: “he can only love for 2-3 years,” then he can lead the relationship to separation. And rebuild his life with another woman in in some kind of updated format for yourself. These same couple of years are given to decide: this is your person, fleeting love or depth is more important to you. What are you ready for? - What do you want from a relationship? If you have one. difficulties in this analysis, including in the karmic aspect - please contact me. I will help you figure it out. If it’s relevant, please contact me. I invite you to an appointment as a psychologist-sexologist to solve problems of any complexity. 8-920-229-66-66