You are a woman and want a relationship. You have closed the "gestalts". You stopped being offended by your ex and got rid of expectations for the future. Now is the time to put things in order in your head so that your heart is not only free, but also calm. Before throwing a piece of red lingerie into a chandelier or slippers for the old New Year, it would be nice to know why you need all this necessary. Why do you need a man? So what? Get ready, I will ask you a lot of questions. And to forestall your counter questions, I’ll say this: Imagine that you want to get a job. So that the salary suits you. So that the conditions are comfortable. Well, the team is suitable. And yes, so that this job is no more than one hour away (five minutes, based on your preferences). You won’t reason in this way: “But I’ll go to any job, the one that comes up first.” Of course, if you are dying of hunger and/or you have nothing to feed your children, then this approach is justified. But you and I are not in this category, when “I want a relationship, my teeth are already aching”?!) Therefore, before you start attracting men, it would be great if you knew how and what you want in a relationship. Ask yourself question: “How do I want to feel in a relationship with a man?” In order for you to be able to answer the main question of relationships with men, it is vital for you to understand “How do I want to feel in my own life?” That is, almost all the questions that you ask yourself regarding your relationship with him should initially be asked regarding your relationship with yourself! Answered? Let's move on. And then you have to write the “Constitution of Relations”. Each independent country has its own Constitution. This is the main and fundamental law of the state. You must also have a “Constitution”, a set of laws by which you live. If you do not have any, then anyone who comes into close contact with you will violate your independence and freedoms. Yes, it’s about borders, but not only. What needs to be taken into account when writing the “Constitution”. All! Everything that is dear, desirable and loving to you should go there. This will turn out to be an impressive document. When you write your Constitution, then write a set of laws about relationships. I will give an example of what my clients write: Law No. 1 “I sacredly honor my own freedom and I don’t encroach on him.” Law No. 2 “I accept only and exclusively monogamy in relationships (I want to be the only one with my beloved man). Law 3 No. “If Law No. 2 is violated, I leave the relationship.” Law No. 4 “ I warn about my needs and desires before entering into a serious relationship." Law No. 5 "I need time to get to know a person better and closer. In order to subsequently build a relationship with a real person, and not a fictional character"And so on. Learn every provision of your code of laws. And when you meet a man, you will be able to ask "uncomfortable" questions in time. You will be able to detect in time your desire to "escape" or place responsibility for the relationship solely on him. You will feel much more confident! After all, your relationship will now be guarded by your own “Constitution of Relationships”, written by you and for you! You send away those comrades who do not want to treat it with respect! forest (garden or bathhouse, to your taste)) Olga Fedoseeva, I help women be happy 🔥 SIGN UP for a consultation by phone: 8 921 436 87 03 or HERE You can read other useful articles by the author here Online courses “How to put an end to relationships and become free", "How to become valuable and necessary for him", "The magic of female sexuality" WITH A DISCOUNT up to 30%