How and when to tell children about divorce?Telling children about divorce can be a difficult and emotionally charged process. The age at which to tell children about divorce may depend on the specific situation and development child. However, in general, divorce discussions can begin when children reach the ages of 6 to 8 years. At this age, they are already better able to understand and recognize difficult situations, as well as express their feelings and ask questions. However, if the situation is very stressful or the children are showing signs of stress or anxiety, the divorce may need to be discussed sooner. It is important to remember that each child is different, and parents should take into account their emotional maturity and ability to understand information about divorce. To make it easier to talk about divorce, here are some recommendations that can help: 1⃣Be honest and direct: Tell your children the truth about divorce. using language that is simple and understandable to them. Avoid hidden or inaccurate explanations.2 Explain that divorce is an adult decision: Explain to children that divorce is a choice that parents make and that it does not mean that they do not love their children or that the children are to blame.3 Emphasize that Parents' love remains the same: Reassure children that their parents still love them and will take care of them. Remember that children may be afraid of losing either parent. 4 Take time to discuss and answer questions: Give children the opportunity to ask questions and express their feelings. Be prepared to answer all their questions and try to explain the situation.5⃣Support them emotionally: Divorce can bring up a variety of emotions in children, such as sadness, anger, fear, or confusion. Be supportive and allow them to express their feelings. Make sure they know they can turn to you for support and comfort.6⃣Cooperate with your ex-spouse: Try to maintain a positive attitude and cooperation with your ex-spouse when communicating with your children about the divorce. This will help create a more stable and safe environment for your children.7 Seek Professional Help: If you are having difficulty talking to your children about your divorce, or if your children are having serious emotional problems, seek help from a psychologist or other professional who can help you and your children cope. this transition period. Sign up for a consultation Telegram Psychologist in the Gestalt approach, relationship expert, Ekaterina Anikina Subscribe to my channel in telegram