Our physiology takes care of our physical development, and this is something that does not require any intervention. The body grows and matures without our participation. But psychological maturation sometimes requires our conscious intervention. If it becomes uncomfortable. A person becomes 100% an adult and can manage money, his feelings, states, decisions - if he BECOME an adult. A huge number of adults remain children or teenagers. When they rebel, they get offended and protest: “I’m right, and the rest are fools.” There are 4 indicators with which you can “measure” the level of your psychological maturity at the moment.1. An adult is a responsible person. Responsibility means considering myself the cause of what is happening in my life. This is not to start blaming myself, but to see what I have learned from this situation. Responsibility is a point of strength. Responsibility is when I see new opportunities. Responsibility is seeing my steps and actions to do next time differently. I can take actions that will improve my life. I don't look at what's WRONG. This is such an old sticking - this is irresponsibility. Because when we look for a long time in life at what is NOT SO, we do not accept ourselves, we do not respect ourselves and other people, respectively. And we don't act at this moment. Because we are afraid to make a “mistake” and, as a result, be punished.2. Emotional independence and independence from parents. Teenagers are usually insolent, upset their parents, misbehave, protest - and if this does not happen in adolescence, then this can last a lifetime. We, agreeing during that period, live it like good boys or girls, remaining docile and obedient, fearing to offend or upset mom. But very often at such moments we hold back, suppress a lot of internal struggle and resistance. Emotional independence is when I choose my feelings regardless of what my mother feels. But this does not mean that it is against the mother to prove it to her or to convince her. Mom, with her destiny and her vision of life, will not understand this. I very calmly accept my mother’s any feelings, I allow her to feel what she wants to feel. But I move on to my life, to my destiny. I calmly separate myself according to my feelings. I am different. I can do what is best for me. It is important not to fight, not to resist, not to prove, but to very calmly accept their comments and feelings - this does not mean that you need to adapt to them. It is important not to ignore, but to say within yourself: “I understand , Mommy, why are you upset, I understand what you would do differently. But I want to live my own way.” It is very important to say this within yourself so that the usual residue of negative feelings does not remain. If you say it out loud, mom will not always understand. It is important for you to negotiate within yourself. This is an important thing that needs to happen during adolescence. Leave the circle of mother's influence, guardianship and love. Take a step back. But this does not mean leaving for good. We then move back towards our parents, but in different respects - we are independent and they are independent. And we are destroying this global dependence. Because if my mother feels bad and I am afraid of upsetting my mother, I sacrifice my life.3. Spontaneity. When a person knows how to act spontaneously. Spontaneity is what allows us to take risks, to take some actions in which we are not 100% sure. If a person does not know how to be spontaneous, he is very rigid, he is very controlling, distrusting, he is analyzing, not acting. Spontaneity equals trust in yourself, the universe. This is very important when you say I want = it will work out, I see, I feel. It is very close to intuition. Spontaneity is what distinguishes adults. They create, they act, create projects and implement them. Spontaneity is taking actions that are not always justified, not always understandable to others. Because this is your life, these are your actions and this is your destiny, project, relationship, etc.4..