A person is only as happy as his comfortable relationships with loved ones. Almost all scenarios revolve around the parental system, and if there is no good relationship with parents, it is difficult to build comfortable relationships with children, with a partner, with friends; all this will be a projection of unresolved conflicts. The main reason for difficult relationships is that an adult child at the age of 30-50 behaves exactly the same as he once did in childhood. The years have increased, but the relationship has not changed. He is also scolded by his parents for bad deeds, instructed on how to live, and an adult, like a child, experiences a feeling of guilt and resentment. Sometimes he feels dissatisfaction, indignation, anger, but even if he has had enough of all this, he continues to remain in a tense relationship. Nothing changed! Everything is like in childhood. Why do you think? What needs to be done to stop quarrels with parents? Do you believe that you can change them for the better? When work begins to resolve the situation, all adult children believe that it is their parents who cannot let them go. And this is the biggest mistake! Until an adult child decides to take responsibility for his actions and life himself, he will continue to provoke his parents to live his life, which is why he is ready to endure control, complaints, and resentments. But only an adult child can stop “being at the skirt” of the mother. After all, parents react to their children no matter how old they are. A mother feeds her child if he is hungry. And all these fairy tales that parents cannot live without you and that they definitely need to control you end with consultations. Many adults, when tense relationships with loved ones arise, begin to artificially create strict boundaries. They leave, block, swear, send, but this is not a solution to the problem, but only aggravates it. When you really make the decision that you’re done being a child, and you yourself know what to do and how, you no longer look for parental approval “did I do the right thing?” No one will control or interfere. A person is woven from vibrations, thoughts, actions and deeds. And what happens to everyone is what their vibrations attract events to. More than 1000 consultations to resolve relationships with loved ones were carried out successfully. Share the post so that everyone has the opportunity to make relationships with loved ones better! Sign up for a consultation in PM Write your comments, questions, thoughts All the best!