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If you think about a culture of interaction, then it almost never arises by chance, it must be created.✨To create it in a family with children, it is necessary to increase the level of aspirations for the family’s capabilities. In order for family members or to be able to develop a culture of interaction, they need to be presented with a greater number of demands, so that they, in turn, have the opportunity to provide help.⭐Start with a simple change in the concept of behavior to refusal to help. Usually when we are refused, we are offended and express your attitude, please explain the refusal... In fact, it is worth accepting the refusal quickly, without creating a topic for discussion out of it. For example, many children often answer “No” for this very reason, because this is a sign for others to start a conversation. It’s just the way a person is the easiest way is to call you to a conversation...🔹So, when accepting a refusal, you must quickly leave the one who refused you, so that he does not have the opportunity to conduct a dialogue, to justify himself in your eyes. It is necessary to ask and ask for help, this is very important and useful to build a culture of interaction.✨You should always ask politely; always being polite is a way to show how much you respect the person you are asking for help.✨The request should be understandable, and assume that for the person this will not become a problem that he cannot solve. You should not refuse to go on the warpath, this will not improve the atmosphere and will not contribute to the development of interaction.✨Learn to be loyal, this will make the world easier. It will be very great if you demonstrate your readiness to interact. Sometimes it is useful to refuse at least for a day answer "No" Try to show your willingness to cooperate. In fact, the result of the day on which you only say “Yes” sometimes brings amazing discoveries :) What does it look like? Very simple! On a beautiful morning of any day of the week, you can declare that today is your Yes day! And you agree to almost everything! This will lift your spirits to begin with, and then the fun begins :) You will need to agree to any proposal, but inform them that you will do everything proposed together. Most often, by the second half of the day, a person gets tired of your agreement; in extreme cases, they may think that your state of mind has been shaken 🙂✨ It is also very important that your behavior changes, so that you demonstrate exactly what you want from all family members. If earlier you were overly emotional, stop doing it...⭐Changes in your behavior force you to leave the usual scenario...You should not negotiate when a person is at the peak of emotions, because at this moment his capabilities for intellectual activity are greatly limited. 💥To create a culture of interaction, it is necessary to think through the policy of behavior in advance. Another way to create a culture of interaction is to disrupt the usual and monotonous family life.🎊For example, one day you can do something that you usually don’t do... This could be a spontaneous visit to the cinema, and not a planned trip to the park, it could be a whole series of actions that you usually don’t do.⭐Why do this? The point is that spontaneity is not people’s strong point. Spontaneity is not a matter of life experience, it makes you feel that the world is changeable and not we predict that the world is wider and more fascinating than it seemed in a series of natural and habitual actions. Be prepared that with such behavior not everything will be perceived positively, but you should not focus on this, you don’t like it, no big deal, there will be something else that perhaps it will bring more joy. The idea of ​​this event is to see for yourself and show other family members that the world is wider and it is changeable. That it is necessary to adapt to new conditions, learn to perceive the world differently. ✨Life can be an adventure where you need help, support, the ability to act here and now, the ability to accept changes. Culture of interaction.