In order to understand this issue, first it is important to understand why you miss the advantages of men. There may be several reasons: 1. Avoidance of intimacy There is a high probability that you had a traumatic experience in childhood: people whom you loved very much hurt you. And a fixation occurred in you: loving is unsafe. You can get hurt by this. And in order to be sure not to experience this pain again, the psyche is fixed exclusively on shortcomings. It’s easier not to get close. If this case applies to you, then you need to remember: Have you always felt unsafe in proximity? Most often, the psyche is fixed on one person (usually mom and dad). Therefore, expand the circle of your loved ones: grandparents, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, friends. Remember at least one person with whom you felt like you were behind a stone wall. This will give you food for thought: “Has it really always been unsafe for me to be close? Or have I concentrated on one specific case or person and now I expect a dirty trick from everyone?”2. Your mother's attitude towards your father and towards men in general. Remember what your mother said about men? How did she treat your father? Did she praise him? Did she support? Or, on the contrary, did she scold for every little thing and notice any shortcoming? And then it is important to share: “This is the mother’s view. It is based solely on her life experiences. And this is MY VIEW. And he may be DIFFERENT. And my attitude towards men may also be DIFFERENT.” But if you feel that your mother’s attitudes about men constantly sound in your head and you seem to be repeating her script, then here I would recommend working with the theme of separation. Perhaps you are not psychologically separated from your mother and her attitude towards men directly affects you too. 3. Pay attention to your experience of past relationships. Perhaps you already have some baggage behind you, where you were deceived, cheated on and betrayed. And now you have the impression that “all men are the same.” In this case, it is important to develop critical thinking and pay attention to strong couples who have lived in love and harmony for many years. Consult an Internet search engine. You will be surprised when you find out how many happy couples there are on Earth. Unfortunately, it is not customary to talk about happiness. While high-profile divorces have been discussed for years. Because of this, it may also seem that strong couples do not exist. I have listed the main 3 reasons why women see only flaws in men. In fact, everything can be much deeper, since each of us has our own path. And such moments are formed purely individually. And if you have not found the answer to your request among the listed reasons, but at the same time want to understand this issue more deeply, then going to a consultation with a psychologist would be an excellent solution.