From the author: A practice-oriented article with a real example from family life. A sincere female fear is a man leaving the family. And, it would seem, the family “lived well,” but then “a young and beautiful woman appeared” (usually a secretary) and the family fell apart. Why does this happen and how to prevent a family triangle from arising? First, you need to understand where the other woman comes from (or even the idea of ​​leaving the family)? Let's try to observe a typical family and a man's behavior at home and at work. Seven in the morning, my wife served breakfast. To the husband’s standard question - “Where is my shirt?” he hears accusations in response: “You never know where your shirt is!” The mood initially deteriorates. Glass of coffee. The wife is offended. “That’s it, I’m off!” The door slammed. And at work this “dunno” is greeted by a smiling, neatly dressed employee. “Ivan Ivanovich, your coffee is ready. Do you know that your employees were able to implement your project? They promise big profits next month! Will you develop the idea further?” Inspired by success, a man zealously begins to perform new tasks. Do you feel the difference?!.. It’s all about the structure of the brain and the perception of information in men and women. “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” - there is a book that talks about gender differences between men and women. If you read the above incident again, you will begin to understand what actually attracts a man to being “young and beautiful.” It's not about appearance or "pretty eyes". At home and at work (or anywhere else) the environment is different. Most often, wives try to adopt an authoritarian policy towards their husband: “Go”, “do”, “decide”, “I told you that...”. A man needs something completely different - new and new goals and achievements. Support and protection. Can you imagine a staircase? A man constantly needs steps, new heights that he will try to achieve. A woman’s task is to help set the right benchmark for a new step and support “On the Rise.” Now let's look at another scenario for the same man. Ivan Ivanovich is with you again. It’s seven in the morning. The wife served breakfast and kissed her husband, receiving a kiss back. To the husband’s standard question: “Where is my shirt?” - I received a completely worthy answer: “Darling, you probably searched it. I stroked it and hung it on a hanger. Should I bring it here for you or will you go and get dressed in the room?” - Ivan Ivanovich smiled broadly and said that he could get dressed in his usual place. For a long time, he and his wife discussed the coming day at breakfast. The wife was interested in what plans her husband had made for today. During the discussion, Ivan Ivanovich came up with new strategies for developing his day at work. Inspired, he went to work, where his employee was waiting for him: “Ivan Ivanovich, your coffee is ready. Do you know that your employees were able to implement your project? They promise big profits next month! Will you develop the idea further?” Ivan Ivanovich’s wide smile was accompanied by the comment: “Sorry, I’ll make a call now.” A telephone receiver in hand, dialing the usual number “beloved”: “Darling, hello! Can you imagine, our idea will bring a decent profit! We did it together!”...Learn to interact with your husband! Make plans together! Help men move forward! Your spouse will come only to you! After all, who, if not you, can inspire him?.. Good luck!