From the author: “Get out of the circle and live without limiting yourself to an imaginary lid” (c) This article will be short like its title. In this article I will not give techniques, let it be a motivator. This amazing one-minute video will tell you everything: How do you like it? Doesn't remind you of anyone? Yes, for me. Don't people behave in similar ways when: 1. They think for others: “He’s probably silent because he’s offended!” But the most striking example of “thinking through” is in a good old joke: An old bachelor decided to go to the cinema. I wanted to iron my trousers, but the iron burned out. I went to my neighbor to get an iron, he rang the doorbell, and he thought: “Now I’ll ask for the iron, she will ask: “Why?” I’ll say: I’m going to the cinema, she’ll ask to invite me. I’ll have to invite her, after the movie she’ll invite me for tea, we’ll start dating, then we’ll have to get married...” Then the neighbor opens the door, and a man from the doorway says: “Fuck off with your iron!!! " (c)2. They complicate upcoming events and overwhelm themselves. Expectations can be catastrophic and ANAstrophic. Tell me, are both words familiar to you? .. So the expectations of 80% are also catastrophic. Has anyone ever canceled the Law of Attraction? What is in the head is realized. So why not place the anticipation of something good there so that it happens more often in our lives?3. They underestimate themselves, despair, seal their potential behind seven locks... Thus they betray themselves, don’t they? You know, I once had an amazing dream: I was walking along the streets of Moscow, and strangers passed by, and everyone had a sign attached to their shoulder with his calling. Here comes the “cook”, here comes the “doctor”, “teacher”... We are not given such signs in maternity hospitals, but we are able to determine our calling and FOLLOW it! What about us? Either we are afraid of fierce competition, or the starting capital required is unaffordable... Have you seen the cartoon about robots? “There is a problem - solve it!” =) Can you imagine how happy it is to relax while working?!4. They live by limiting beliefs (often imposed on us by parents and society) and prejudices. “After 40, diseases begin to attack!”, “I’m ALREADY 35 and it’s too late to go to school” (firstly, you’re STILL 35. But what about Colonel Sanders, who at the age of 60 (!!!) still sold a recipe for fried chicken, which laid the foundation for KFC?..You can come up with something else, but I promised that the article would be short. Think about it: How do you see your life ideally (so that it’s not “a bigger bowl, a longer chain,” but something that will take your breath away!) What? prevents this? In what ways can you eliminate obstacles? The article “Your own consultant” can help you. It’s okay if you don’t manage to “sort out all the problems” the first time; what’s more important is that you even admit the idea that you can tailor and sew such a life. , which will suit you. And then step by step.…