HOW TO AVOID PROBLEMS IN SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS? In the life of a man and a woman, sexual relations play a significant role. However, this significance for each of them is very individual and rather unstable. Why does this happen? What underlies both female and male frigidity? Let's try to figure it out. It is clear that we are all different. And of course, all this must be considered taking into account the individuality of each individual person, his physiological, mental, physical and moral characteristics. But, if you miss this... We all experience interest, attraction, desire and lust for the opposite sex. This is normal, this is natural. However, the intensity of sexual sensations, the brightness and strength of feelings, the excitement and fervor experienced during the first years with the same partner dull and fade over time. Such established relationships carry a meager intimate repertoire and a low level of sexual arousal, which Of course, it will not contribute to the desire and prosperity of sex. Here are the thoughts that arise during sexual intercourse among partners who have lost the joy and pleasure from sexual relations: She: “Well, give him sex again. Neither arouse me properly, nor prepare me, nor set me up. I haven’t even gotten wet, and he’s already climbing in with his dick.” He: “Well, here we go again, who knows what. She lies motionless in a frozen position like a faceless mannequin, once again not happy with something. If this continues, then you will have to look for sex on the side.” Perhaps expressed too frankly, but accurately and without unnecessary false modesty. So, they are thinking about the same thing. About the reluctance of such sex and such relationships. Unsatisfied need and emotional devastation, naturally, can lead to new love attractions and relationships on the side. Therefore, you need to elevate sex above the ordinary, introduce elements of novelty into this routine, perhaps add a little piquancy, open up and apply new forms of activity in intimate relationships that can give each other unforgettable pleasure. It is always necessary to remember that a certain mood and preliminary actions that lead to sexual relations are no less important than the sexual act itself. And here the role of foreplay cannot be underestimated. By the way, the absence or insignificant role of the preparatory stage leads to general dissatisfaction in sexual life and most misunderstandings regarding the issue of achieving sexual satisfaction lie precisely in this. But it is foreplay that gives partners the feeling of openness, desirability and significance that every person so needs. Before the start of sexual intercourse, the leading role is given to love games. Give this some time. Such games are expressed in gentle caresses, passionate hugs, burning kisses that evoke sexual sensuality. However, this process of awakening sensuality requires initiative, ingenuity, patience and knowledge from partners. During sexual intercourse, a significant role in maintaining sexual attractiveness in relation to each other is played by the variety of positions used by partners. Do not ignore this fact. At the end of sexual intercourse, also give each other the necessary attention, thereby completing the begun process and leaving only positive emotions and memories about yourself. What remains undoubted is that men really like sex, and women really like good sex. Sergey KoshelevJanuary 14, 2013