From the author: published on the website of the Center for Practical Psychology "TAK!" www.treningi.me Space of Love While working on attracting a soul mate or improving relationships with a partner in the process of individual consultation or training, I often have to deal with the impossibility of the appearance of a long-awaited loved one due to the internal unpreparedness of the one who so passionately desires to receive this love. Imagine this situation: a beautiful, wonderful lady, a good housewife, an intelligent interlocutor, a devoted friend, a gorgeous figure, and the question is frozen in her eyes: “Why I'm alone? And the girlfriend, who is not a beauty, seems to be a bitch by nature and her hands are in great demand?” Or here is a man, personable, a breadwinner, a handsome man, and already the fifth woman leaves. At the beginning of the training, he makes the assumption: I’m probably very soft, ladies, they love me hard. Look, Vovka, all the women are sticky..." But no, friends, our heroes are unlucky not at all because they love this or that, that they need to be kind or a bitch, a tough macho or a caring dad. They love everyone, but for love to come and stay with you, you must have a space inside in which it could live. Love is an innate state. SHE IS INSIDE!!!Looking for her outside is pointless and initially futile!!! All babies are initially full of love for the world, they glow with it. Remember how lovingly they look at their mother. How they love themselves, it doesn’t even occur to them that someone might not love them. So nice :) What happens then? And then the space of love becomes clogged: with relationships between parents, the attitude of others towards the child, his negative experiences, attitudes from parents and others: “All men need only one thing...”, “Beautiful women cannot be trusted!”, “You’ll see, he (and ) will leave you!” And love leaves the inner space, for the world, for others, for oneself. And in its place comes distrust, resentment and the expectation of a catch. And somewhere in the depths there is still hope, what if he (s) appears and heals my sick soul? And creates this very space in it, and we will live happily ever after .Definitely will appear! the one who will be attracted by your inner snakes and thorns that appeared in your inner space instead of love! Do you already think that no one will be attracted? Why not. If others are the same? Soul kinship, you know. Besides, the victim will always find a master. If you're waiting for the next goat, he's right there. Would you like to dig through someone else's trash, hoping to clear it out and see love there? That's it! Therefore, it’s time to get down to business ourselves, take a magic broom (if you are in simoron, you can literally). And clear your inner space of Love. And then you will no longer need a crutch partner to love until you lose your pulse (I don’t love myself) or who creates for you what you lack in life. You will no longer need to be a victim partner, whom you want to pounce on and love so much that it doesn’t seem like enough! By filling your inner space with love for yourself and the world, you will be able to build a relationship with your partner, not parasitizing on each other, but creating something new: children, family, life style, events. This , believe me, a completely different level of relationships in which love is a constant background, it is unconditional, filling with energy. By the way, if you live happily and for a long time with a partner, clearing your space of love from minor quarrels, insults and omissions can also be very useful and helps love to flare up with new strength. Having cleansed your inner space of Love, you really become a different person, your eyes light up, it’s impossible to pass by! One of the simplest tools that can help us in independently cleansing the inner space of love is the “Creating a Space of Love” meditation. I want to give this meditation to everyone for permanent use, you can download it from the link http://www.treningi.me/audio/MPL_F2.mp3The meditation was created based on the energy practice of Reiki and.