From the author: What are the causes of problems in relationships with men? Why is it difficult to find a worthy life partner? How to build a happy family and raise healthy children? Expressing femininity is one of the possible solutions to these problems. In my practice, I have more than once met women who are outwardly prosperous and happy: they have independently achieved financial independence, success in their careers/businesses, but at the same time they are absolutely unhappy in their personal lives. People around them most often explain this with two reasons: “they simply don’t have time for their personal life” or “she is such a strong woman that it is difficult for her to find a worthy man - there are very few of them.” So these women come in their expensive cars to their hard-earned apartment and lie down in their big bed alone. And it’s not clear why all this is needed when there is no feeling of happiness inside. Why does this happen? There can, of course, be several reasons. This may be due to parental relationships, unpleasant experiences in relationships in the past, etc. In this article I would like to touch on one of the common reasons why women begin to show masculine qualities and play male roles in life, thus dooming themselves to loneliness or unhappiness. Hence the problems of finding a worthy man, and building a happy family, if a man is... There are, however, difficulties in raising healthy children. The reasons for such difficulties are rooted in childhood, more precisely at the age of three to six years, when children enter the so-called phallic period. This is the time when a boy and a girl learn that they belong to a certain gender and have certain differences in physical structure. Often during this period some distortions occur. To put it in plain language, girls, for example, begin to envy boys and believe that they have been given more, strive to be like them, and display masculine qualities (play boyish games: war games, sabers, etc.). After this, it may be difficult for them to find a couple in life, since to make one, on the one hand, the masculine principle is necessary, and on the other, the feminine. And feminine is beauty, tenderness, sensitivity. Masculine is courage, strength and pride to “prance proudly on a horse”, showing strength (in the modern world a horse is replaced by a car). If a woman begins to behave like a man, she provokes similar behavior towards herself, since in the male world it is customary to fight and show toughness. This is how a woman grows up who, demonstrating her strength, humiliates and scares away men without noticing it herself. What should parents do to raise a girl to be feminine? Nurture feminine qualities, encourage girls to play, explain how valuable it is to be a woman and, of course, demonstrate this by example. What to do when you have already grown up and are already faced with the consequences? It is important to understand that everything that men do, they do for the sake of women. Since it is women, thanks to their beauty, tenderness and sensitivity, who are the source of procreation, it is women who create the emotional climate in the family, while men earn and protect. The woman is in charge! The happiness of future generations depends on women - isn’t this a good reason to be proud of your gender! Courageous women need to love themselves, recognize themselves as worthy beings and try every day to take a step towards their Feminine happiness!