Every day I meet clients in consultation with various questions, requests, problems and situations from superficial to deep experiences or deep-seated memories. And each has its own special individuality with hope for happiness, love and faith in good things. Sometimes the desire to suggest the right path, show guidelines and choose solutions comes at the most difficult moment of worries and tears. In the moment I understand that I need to get together and understand for myself who I am now. Since the manifestation of feelings and natural instincts sometimes take over and the psychologist can instantly become a parent for the client or rise on a wave of sympathy and join the client. A psychologist, in my opinion, first of all respects the client’s personality, relies on positive emotions and variability in the way out of the situation. Joining the client can be competent at the level of together we look for setting tasks and ways to solve problems. And vice versa, instead, when the psychologist takes control into his own hands and begins to orient the client in the positive direction of illusory hopes, applying postulates in his practice, leading the person away from himself and of his individuality towards stigmas. Applying a postulate in his practice, a psychologist, using the starting position of the theory, begins to prove the truth of judgments with the help of such tools as a parable, proverb, saying, folk wisdom. Thus, a postulate is a principle, position, basis for discussing meaningful reasoning and conclusions that are built into a person’s mental images as truth: Subsequently, a person’s thinking forms the process of stigmatization. In order to process a huge flow of information, the brain begins to think through images, pictures and compare with previous experiences. To do this, the brain selects a stigma, ready-made labels, patterns that it has previously heard and seen. At the same time, for the human brain, sources of information are used in the same way, whether they are actually happening events, or those seen or heard in films, programs, songs or performances. Only an attribute is recorded in thinking, about the presence and origin of which nothing is known for certain. Stigmas are a special type of relationship between quality and stereotype, which are manifested in words, reinforced by the fear of ignorance, generated by views and carried out by actions. Stigmas can be actual - associated with the experience of discrimination, humiliation and felt - shame caused by a label or stigma, fear of the possible manifestation of an attributed deficiency. A person under the influence of stigma is categorical, reacts to inconsistency with personal stereotypes, substantiates dogmas with ideology and staunchly adheres to views on physical, individual or social stigma. At the same time, stigmatization today exist rather at the usual (genetic) level, because People with individual characteristics have been persecuted, destroyed, isolated, and branded for centuries. The fear of being in such a situation manifests itself in the field of mental illness. A person brought up in conditions of intolerance, constant reproaches, manifestations of guilt and shame is more prone to autostigmatization. A person acutely feels the influence of intense maladaptive reactions on himself and begins to look for flaws in himself, seek information and confirm ideas in available social resources, mobilizing conclusions in his thoughts, adhering to statistical data. For example, after reading or hearing the news that depression is in the second place after cardiovascular diseases, a person begins to look for the possibility of confirming diagnoses in himself. And the more thoroughly he understands the issues on his own, delving into the symptoms, the more diligently he tries on himself, experiencing shame when contacting a specialist. Unlike somatic diseases, in which physical pain (experience) forces a person to see a doctor, with stigmatization and autostigmatization the individual remains aloof from sources of possible support, feeling shame from the possible confirmation of a mental disorder and1