An important part of human life is social interaction. Often it is realized through communication. It is here that we have the opportunity to understand our guidelines, feel like a significant part of the world, and receive warmth and support. Be it a romantic, friendly, family or work relationship. The presence of the function itself, that is, the opportunity to get something valuable for yourself, makes communication interesting. I would like to share some patterns that make communication interesting. First of all, about what makes it so for myself. There is an opportunity to demonstrate the real me. Be open, vulnerable and, at the same time, accepted. Without the need to hide important parts of your life or appear better. Provided personal opportunity to choose comfortable and enjoyable ways to interact together. They are not limited only to the initiative of the communication partner. My feelings and thoughts are heard and accepted. I don’t face condemnation or rejection. In this communication, you can say whatever you want from your communication partner or ask for something. It is recognized that I cannot be perfect. I can’t always be in touch, know exactly what someone else needs, and am able to help. Communication presupposes the existence of at least two sides. And you can get maximum pleasure from it if it is pleasant for everyone. Now a little about how to make it pleasant for another? There is a sincere interest in the personality of the communication partner. Curiosity about his life, emotional involvement in his manifestations. Investment of time and effort for communication. Understanding the importance of time spent together. Not only my desires are realized in this communication, but also the desires of my partner. Opportunities are created to talk about them and put them into practice. The partner has the same opportunity to be heard. His thoughts, ideas or experiences are recognized as significant. The partner also has the right to be imperfect. Make mistakes, have limitations. The right to self-determination of others is recognized. You are not trying to change him. As we can see, an important part of communication is the opportunity to show your true selves and at the same time be accepted by others. And it’s more pleasant for all parties if it’s mutual. Of course, the basis is the interest in the person itself. With him, it seems that any mistakes will not be so significant. But without it, the communication function can quickly be lost. In telegram I make beautiful cards, talk about work and life, we joke together: https://t.me/alexartout I’ll be glad to see you;)