From the author: People play games: prove to me that you are like this, like this, convince me, but exactly like this, like that, and once you prove it, they play their game with themselves.. . I myself am not sure of anything, and I don’t want confidence, I’m just having fun. Those who know exactly who he is are simply looking for something similar, a match with their counterpart, the male is looking for the female counterpart, the female is looking for the male, and if they play. game, then these relationships are initially false, deceitful and have no continuation. The point here is not about relationships, but about having fun in life. In principle, they are not only looking for a woman, they are also looking for a man, emphasizing the words: namely, real ones. What does this mean? And this means this... The easiest way is to look at the animal, and then move on to the person. So, in nature, everyone is looking for their own thing, hedgehog-hedgehog, bunny-hare, wolf-wolf, and does not doubt its reality, truth. As he understands this, according to his analogue, according to the analogue of the pair inherent in his nature, chemistry and physics. A hedgehog naturally recognizes someone who is not a hedgehog; a hare wearing the ears and tail of a bunny will not confuse, surprise, or convince her partner that she is indeed a hare. The animal is not surprised, does not get angry, it simply does not react, bypassing those who are not its own. In nature, everything is arranged precisely and simply. Man, with his higher organization of the psyche, what has given undoubted benefits to humanity, has also given a huge number of variations of confusion and deception, thanks to which a person gets lost in his own knowledge about himself and about others. Imagine, a hedgehog sits in a clearing and thinks, “Am I a hedgehog, and if a hedgehog, then which one, and what kind of hedgehog do I need, and do I need a hedgehog...." But a person can, can doubt, think, clarify, detail, specify and in general, these are excellent abilities to develop functions. But if a person doubts the external, then his internal doubt has launched the process into the external. I drink tea, but is it tea, or maybe it’s not tea at all... the problem is not the tea, but the fact that the person has begun to doubt his analogue, his previous knowledge of the analogue. Even more precisely, my own analogue, interaction with him, raised doubts in me, which means I doubt it. In advertisements on dating sites, people often write and emphasize truth and authenticity, thereby speaking about their own ignorance of the present. The question - “Are you really a real man, woman?”, at least creates a response question - how can you prove realness, the second question - why prove it and to whom? It is in principle impossible to prove or explain to someone who does not have an analogue.. Until our own analogue of the reality of ourselves and in ourselves appears within us, it is useless to receive it from someone from the outside. When I know for sure that I am real, I see the real ones, choosing mine myself, because only I determine what coincides with my knowledge. Returning to tea, I know for sure that I am drinking tea, I accept the availability of different types of tea, choosing my favorite, the best for myself, I know exactly what I want. And to convince me otherwise is stupid, I will try, but I will choose my own, like any other analogue of my present. People play games: prove to me that you are like this, like this, convince me, but exactly like this, like this, and how do you prove it, playing their game with themselves... I myself am not sure of anything, and I don’t want confidence, I’m just having fun. Those who know exactly who they are are simply looking for something similar, a match with their analogue, the male is looking for a female analogue, the female is looking for a man, and if they play a game, then this relationship is initially false, deceitful and has no continuation. The point here is not about relationships, but about having fun in life.