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A psychologist does not “teach how to build relationships.” When they teach, they tell you how to do it. How to respond to a man in correspondence, how to force him to propose - I don’t know. During the consultation, the client and I are looking together for a way to be in a relationship in a way that is natural to him. Together because I don't know how he feels. And he can act out of habit (offended, afraid, etc.) For example, my client and I find the reason for the fear in the relationship that he will be abandoned. I help him experience the feeling of security that he is able to survive and even live happily if he separates. I help him experience a feeling of autonomy and significance in his life, that he is definitely worthy of respect. And he can refuse communication himself if he doesn’t like it, without feeling guilty. And at the end of each consultation we discuss how the client now feels if his partner is rude to him or manipulates the breakup. And the client talks about his feelings and what he will probably do now. And only the client determines how it will actually be. I can’t rush a person or tell him, it won’t work. I have known the client for only a couple of hours, but before that he lived his whole life. I have accumulated many fears, beliefs and habits. And this is his way of living. It is dangerous to cross this out, and even impossible. And step by step the client becomes more persistent and flexible, soft and firm in relations with his partner. And there is no place for teachings, rules, principles on the part of the consultant. I never promised to marry off girls. Simply because people even break up consciously after psychological work with me. Getting out of unpleasant, dangerous relationships I don’t call you for consultations with marriage problems, but if you trust me, come, I don’t give up on this topic. But I don’t cover it, I wasn’t married, I don’t have the experience or material to write about it on a blog. A family psychologist will be more helpful here. My topic is problems at the beginning of a relationship, problems with dating. When it’s like it’s time to get married, but still nothing. I won’t marry you off, because I’m sure that this is not where happiness lies, otherwise people wouldn’t leave marriage. I rather help you feel valuable and important to yourself even without marriage, to see men as living people with feelings and interests https://taplink.cc/nale_psyhttps://t.me/NaLe_psyhttps://vk.com/id24535025https://www .youtube.com/@levanina/