When I lose the most wonderful man in the world and with him our common fairy tale...When I have to return to my routine, to my gray life...to my unrenovated apartment ...into my daily affairs, which are many times more boring than His affairs...I remember that I am me and I can’t run away from myself! Even if HE stays with me, then his bright life, interesting to me, is his life! And my life is my life. And it’s important to think about YOUR life. What is my life like? Dull or bright? Empty or full? It’s important to return to yourself! I often return to myself, realizing what I like about HIM and what I have that is similar. And I also remember that only I have. For example, he has many ambitious goals and he goes towards them. I also have ideas for several projects in my head that I want to implement, but for some reason I put them off indefinitely. For example, it is important for him to learn new things, to study, but for me it is important to create... When I remember about myself, I understand that I am beautiful in myself. Or I understand what I need to do in my life to become beautiful! For me, this is, for example, starting to implement my projects. And also stop dreaming of “escaping” from your unrenovated apartment, and take it as a creative project and “create” a renovation... It’s important to learn how to color your life yourself! It is important to find and develop the beauty in yourself! In addition, if, when parting with a BEAUTIFUL man as a teenager, it seemed to me that I would never meet SUCH PERFECTION again, now I understand that the world is rich and a lot of interesting things await me ahead! When my life is full, when I know what is in the world there are many wonderful men, then it’s not so scary to lose... then I can give another person the choice to be with me or leave, let go... I can give myself a choice, whether this person is right for me, not to cling And the second thing I want to say , this is about the loss of love. Somewhere I saw a phrase that when a person is in love, his ability to love, care, and also receive love is fixed on a specific person. And when this particular person leaves our life, the fixation remains for some time and this causes pain. At such moments, it is important to learn to love and care for other people, to learn to enjoy the love of other people, to learn little by little, in small steps... And it is also important to be angry and hate, to thank and appreciate what happened, to yearn, to be bored... But I'll write about this some other time)