Many couples go through renovations. And for many it does not go quite “smoothly”. Disputes begin: over the choice of design, color of wallpaper and other other details. Relations become tense. Quarrels occur. If a couple makes repairs on their own, then it is doubly difficult. Because some people are doing it for the first time and don’t know many of the repair subtleties. And while they are learning this, they are very nervous. Even if the repairs are done by specially trained people, misunderstandings can still arise due to the different brain structures of women and men. A woman likes one thing, and a man something completely different. The wife wants a green kitchen, and the husband wants a black one. And how to find contact when a couple is renovating? We need to look for compromises. Respect your partner’s opinion, even if you think that he has no taste at all. For example, if a woman chooses the kitchen, then let the husband choose the bathroom. If you agree on what style the bathroom will be in, and the problem is in the details, then try to divide the choice of parts equally. This way, neither you nor your partner will be offended, because each of you contributed his part to the repair. If the problem is that the husband or wife does not want to participate in the repair at all, try to interest your partner and entice him. You can start adding details that your husband or wife would like and consult about these details, so they will slowly begin to get involved in the process. If you are already undergoing renovations and you are already in a quarrel, try to make peace with your partner. Remember that this is just a domestic quarrel. She is not that serious and it is not worth spoiling relationships because of her. Your partner did not cheat on you, did not betray you, did not deceive you. Remember that quarrels in repair work can be prevented. Usually men get nervous when they fail at something, for example, in wallpapering. A woman should not tell him “under the arm” and if he swears because of this, it is better for the woman to remain silent and not escalate the conflict. A man will calm down as soon as he manages to do everything correctly and beautifully. A woman may only think that it is easy for a man, but in fact it is very hard work. You just need to endure the moment of repair. Be persistent in this matter and not be led by your partner’s provocations, find compromises, be able to wait.