From the author: Today people prefer to get acquainted themselves. But was the role of matchmaker really so useless? Question: I really like one man. Everything is decent. He is not married and I am not married. But he doesn't know that. And he's older than me. What should I do? Answer: Hello. According to the law, almost any unmarried woman can marry any unmarried man. As for age, a difference of several years is not a hindrance, but a strong difference in age, 10 years or more, is usually not welcome. But as for the choice of the “chosen one,” there is no need to rush. Today people prefer to meet themselves. But people have long accepted that young people do not get to know each other. Usually, matchmaking was carried out either by parents or special people - “matchmakers.” Because the bride or groom himself may fall under the influence of various factors, such as external charisma or attractiveness, and idealizing the chosen one, they will not notice things that may further complicate family life , or even make it impossible. Let's now return to your question. In accordance with the above, we can advise you to still turn to someone for advice, preferably someone who knows this man, and ask his (her) advice in this situation, how “compatible” you are".