After breaking up with their significant other, many men think that she is waiting for them to take action and take steps to meet her. And this may indeed be the case. How to recognize this? And how to behave correctly in such situations? We also really distinguish signals from those that we have come up with ourselves. I will analyze all this in today’s article. 1. She speaks herself. The ex herself directly tells you or hints to you that she expects some actions from you. For example: “You do nothing at all to win (read how to achieve) me towards you.” “I don’t feel like I’m protected with you.” And of course, if you hear this, you think, well, everything is green light. Well, of course not, that’s not true. Then she says that she simply doesn’t see a future together with you, she has no attraction to you. And with your actions, you can do it’s only worse, since you’re imposing yourself on her or a relationship that she doesn’t need (or doesn’t need at this point in time). Here you need to leave your ex for a while and not touch her, let her get bored, start thinking about you, and she’ll start , because this is how our brain works, it displaces bad memories over time, leaving only good ones.2. Friends You can understand that she expects steps from you thanks to them, her friends. They will definitely advise J from their feminine bell tower and feminine romanticism: make light courtship, bring her coffee to work, leave a flower on the door, write “good morning”, etc. But remember that she left you, not you left her. And her desire remains that you do not touch her. Therefore, women with such advice can only mislead you and aggravate the situation. If a woman wants to be with a man, she will take steps towards him in any case, and not push him away. The ex needs to be given time to calm down. 3. Relatives Your ex-woman can communicate with your relatives or friends and may say a phrase like “I was thinking about getting back to him” and she knows that of course they will tell you about it. Even if this is the case and you heard such words, you don’t need to run headlong towards her, losing your mind. This may be said for the purpose of whitening yourself in their eyes and not being so bad. Perhaps, perhaps, she wants you to start making some attempts, but we all remember that the position of the one asking does not work in your favor.4 . Social networks, namely, provocation in them. These could be some posts on her part about men who do things for their women. Perhaps sad photographs, reels/stories with sad music or words on the topic “think.” Maybe a photo where she is with a bouquet of flowers or in a cafe, where you can see a couple of glasses of wine. And of course you think that this is to hook you, to hurt you. That this is some kind of message hidden from her. That in the first case she is sad and is waiting for you to start acting, in the second that you are about to completely lose her and she will be “taken away”. There is no need to react to this in any way. First of all, this may not be published for you or for you. And if she is really interested in you, then, as I said earlier, she will make the same steps. If we are talking about social. network, then maybe they will like your photo or story, but even here, if this happens, you don’t need to start writing poems to her, be more restrained. Vanity has never led to anything good and will not lead to anything good. Now your main task is to raise your value, first of all, in your own eyes. And remember that each situation is individual, in order to understand yours and help, sign up for a consultation and we will definitely help you! If your girlfriend or wife left you? If your marriage is bursting at the seams on the verge of divorce? Need help getting rid of love addiction or developing yourself? Need help finding yourself? Or are there any other requests? Write to me - we’ll figure it out and solve your problem!