The desire to save a relationship often arises not when the relationship is just beginning to deteriorate, but when a crisis occurs and the relationship is falling apart at the seams. Partners cease to understand each other, mutual grievances, irritation, reproaches accumulate and, as a result, a noticeable distance appears. Emotions are so strong that there are not enough resources and strength to fix something. In order not to urgently resuscitate your relationship, it is advisable to notice the problems that arise in them in advance. Do not close your eyes, do not keep silent, but observe and clarify the changes taking place that worsen relationships. What should you pay attention to? What signals indicate that a relationship is heading into the abyss?1. Rivalry. In communication, there is a desire to prove something all the time, to convince and express something. To be right, the best, the first in everything. These remarks sound something like this: “You’re wrong”, “Why don’t you admit that I’m right?!”, “Well, I said that it will be so”2. Control. When communicating with your partner, you take on the role of a parent. You find it difficult to relax. There is pressure and tension in the air. There is a nagging feeling that you need to keep everything in your hands, otherwise everything around you will fall apart. It comes out like this: “If I don’t remind you, you won’t do it,” “you promise, as always, and don’t keep it,” “Well, who else if not me?” "," "You have to decide everything yourself." 3. Sacrifice. When communicating with your partner, you take on the role of a child. You feel a constant deficiency, a lack of something. You have requests and demands that your partner does not respond to, does not provide, or does not make up for. It sounds like this: “I don’t have enough attention”, “you don’t notice me”, “do you really love me?”.4. Distancing. Destructive feelings appear in communication: Irritation. Anger. Discontent. And behind them comes the desire to move away. It sounds like this: “What do you want from me?” , “Leave me alone,” “We’ve already talked about this a hundred times,” “this is a useless conversation,” “You repeat the same thing every time.”5. Indifference and indifference. Coldness and detachment appeared in communication. The partner stopped taking the initiative the way he did before. It sounds like this: “decide for yourself,” “whatever you decide, so it will be,” “I don’t care.”6. Lack of time and constant busyness. You have begun to spend little time together, there are always things that are more important than spending time together. It sounds like this: “I’m busy,” “I have a lot of work,” “I’m tired,” “I have a headache,” “let’s go to the next one.” times.”7. Loss of interest. When communicating, you feel bored and confused. You don't have common topics of conversation. You notice long pauses and a reluctance to continue the dialogue. All communication comes down to everyday issues. Read the 7 signals of a destructive relationship and: observe what is happening now in your interaction with your partner. Which of the criteria below, in your opinion, need your attention and understanding? What is worth working on to maintain and strengthen relationships?