Why am I again touching on the topic of female love? Because I see that this topic is very, very relevant for women of all ages. This topic is complex, acute and currently confidently holds the lead among other vital interests. And this is no coincidence. Love is why we live and why we come into this world. In this article I present my own conclusions and do not claim to be the ultimate truth. From my practical (professional and life) experience, I conditionally divided women according to their ability to love into three groups: So, the first and largest group in percentage terms. It includes women who “cannot” love. That is, they can love, all people have this ability. But their feeling of true love is hidden, walled up under the rubble of trauma, pain, betrayal and negative beliefs about love. In appearance, these women are successful, they can be married, they have children. But love, as a feeling, is prohibited among them. The emotional cold that spreads around such women forces men who are seeking love and are emotionally well to stay away from them. Yes, sex with them is possible, but love is not. These women, despite their outward success, cannot feel happy. Inside them is a huge, unsatisfied need for Love, which cannot be satisfied either by material success or personal achievements in business. Such women, even being wary of loving, still sometimes decide to have a close relationship, open their hearts, and... They end up in another traumatic situation of unhappy love. Why is this happening? Because, despite the enormous need to love, such women cannot truly love. Their love is love-passion and love-attachment. Second group. No less extensive. These are women who “love” too much. Representatives of this category of love are also found among those women who have a real feeling of love forbidden. They are characterized by love - affection, love-passion. “I love but I can’t” and “I love so much that I hate” are the involuntary mottos of the love relationships of these sufferers. And there is no doubt that these women really suffer in such relationships. Before the eyes of those around them, their fate collapses, their children and relationships with other people suffer. In their life, their beloved man comes first. Everything else exists insofar as... Thoughts, feelings, actions, decisions - everything depends on the momentary orientation of a woman’s feelings. If there is an upswing in the relationship, she is happy. If a man moves away, distances himself from her - that’s it, life is terrible and you don’t want to live. Depression and emotional uplift replace each other with incredible speed. Didn’t answer the call, there’s blackness and pain in my soul. He answered - joy and satisfaction. She wakes up with thoughts of him, lives with thoughts of him and falls asleep with thoughts of him, passionately desired and unattainable. Participants in such a relationship: a woman with a high degree of dependence and a non-free man (married, living in another city, working a lot and not going to connect his fate with her). “I love, I can’t” is an extremely destructive feeling. It deprives a woman of strength, energy and happiness. In conditions of all-consuming passion, a woman feels that she is burning out. These women describe that when they are near their lover or when they think about him, their temperature rises and their body aches. In such cases, the priests say: “Quickly to the temple. To God!” All other “subspecies” of a woman’s love for a man are a cocktail of a mixture of the first and second groups in different proportions. For example, a woman who has a tendency towards love-dependence, after an unsuccessful romance, may “forbid herself to love and enter into close relationships - “go cold” and lose the ability to feel anything. Therapy and treatment of both “coldness” and love-dependence are very “Recovery” requires the great desire of the woman herself, the help of a specialist - a psychotherapist, and the support of loved ones. But, most importantly,