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The Internet space is a place where we share our thoughts, photos and impressions, and also work. Many of us write blogs with articles and videos on large Internet platforms. And sometimes you have to deal with negative comments and even outright hate. How to react correctly to this so as not to lose motivation to continue to be active online? Let's figure it out together. I will offer my options, in the comments you can offer yours. So: 1. If the comment is from the “You are a fool” series, there is no point in answering “you are a fool” or proving that you are not a fool. Such comments can simply be ignored or deleted. People write them to get emotional release and to release accumulated negative emotions. Completely toxic users who have insulted you more than once can be blocked.2. If the comments contain a healthy grain, but are written in an offensive or disparaging manner, you can do as in the first point. If a comment contains a point of view that differs from yours and is written correctly and respectfully, then it is worth paying attention to and responding to. If someone expresses dissatisfaction with your content, try to move the conversation in a constructive direction. Ask the person what he would do. What exactly . Often you can extract useful feedback from negativity.3. In any case, no matter what they write to you, it is important not to take it to heart and remain calm. By the way, online communication is a great way to train resilience when faced with criticism, and to practice the ability to respond to it with reason. Then in offline life it will be easier to deal with criticism and you will not have to avoid solving important issues in which you may encounter condemnation and criticism.4. If the negativity still affects you, then try to control the response. Returning attacks, insults or excuses only provokes them to attack you even more violently. If you are very angry or upset, do not answer this very second, cool down and think about the wording with a cool head - on the Internet no one is chasing you or standing over your soul.5. Usually, Internet negativity “highlights” weak points in our self-esteem. Strengthening self-esteem and working on its adequacy is always useful.6. Just kidding. A joke can relieve tension and help cope with negativity.7. If you really hurt someone's feelings and feel that you were wrong or went too far, then it is better to apologize correctly. Be polite, politeness always leads to constructiveness. What do you do? I will receive your feedback! You can make an appointment with me via WhatsApp +79162810974