From the author: Such requests are often encountered. Indeed, there are a lot of lonely people nowadays. There are many reasons for this. Such requests are common. Indeed, nowadays there are a lot of lonely people. There are many reasons for this. And, quite often, these reasons are within the person himself. Even I would say, almost always. If this request is about you, take it and try these techniques right away. In any development and change, the most important thing is to start doing it! Usually, after reading an article with some techniques that are inappropriate for a person according to his habits and attitude, a person says to himself, “This is some kind of crap, some kind of nonsense, well, this is not about me, etc.” .d.", that is, depreciation is triggered. To those who think so, I will say: these techniques are suitable for everyone and always work! Do it and it will be) For those who enjoy the video more: For those who like to read more (video and text differ by 1 technique)1. We change our view of a person within ourselves. Explanations: When we see any person, within the first 5 seconds we make a decision on how to treat him. Where does this come from? A person has 132 facial muscles on his face, and a person is practically unable to control all of them (he can, if he knows this technique). We read a person’s attitude towards us by the facial muscles, and based on this we begin to relate to him. Yes, for every person, no matter what he says, the most interesting person is HE himself! And then it doesn’t matter at all what a person starts saying or doing; intuitively, our attitude has already been formed. What to do: Whatever task you face, it works. If you need this for work - your boss, partner, colleague will like you, establish a relationship for business with an unpleasant person or make a girl or man fall in love with you, or maybe make friends with someone who seems somehow strict and inaccessible - there is only one approach. Find something in this person that you sincerely really like about him, as one of my colleagues says, “Fall in love with the wrinkle on his body.” Every person has advantages and disadvantages, find the advantage, what admires you in this person and think about it. You will automatically see how the person likes you. Try it today! Right with almost any stranger. Look at Aunt Glasha, the cleaning lady who always grumbles and annoys you, or whoever is similar to you. Look with the desire to find the good in her, maybe she has kind eyes or she wipes the dust amazingly. And when you walk past her, think about it and say “Hello!” Then repeat again and again! Write to me how your relationship will change. With people who are important to you, this is even more important, BUT, as a psychologist, I recommend: try to find this bend in everyone, so that your world becomes more pleasant and joyful, this is such a paradox :)2. Technique for proper adjustment Explanations: Perhaps in articles or books on popular psychology you have seen how to adapt to a person’s posture. You can find a lot of tips on how to adjust with your hands, feet, head tilt, BUT!!! This is a very noticeable and often practically NOT useful Monkeying that results. Like for example HERE Just like the advice: “Touch a person when you want to convey something to him” - these techniques are taken from NLP techniques and rather rudely sent to the masses. The most correct adjustments are ADJUSTMENT for breathing and ADJUSTMENT for values. These adjustments make a person immediately very close and understandable to you, and the person is drawn to you with FURIOUS strength. Values ​​are the most important thing in a person’s understanding of life, and Breathing is the basis of human life. What to do: By Breathing: It is necessary to notice how a person breathes. Most often, people breathe either with their chest or stomach. To do this, of course, you don’t need to look at the chest and stomach, but just look for some time in the space between the ear and shoulder. Carefully, you will feel like you are just lost in thought and looking into the distance. Gradually, through mini body movements, you will see inhalation and exhalation. Another way to notice breathing is that people speak as they EXHALE. Did you notice? Now.