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Draw up a plan for preparing the assignment together with your child; it should include rest periods and the order of completing lessons. Let the student choose which subject, exercise it is easier for him to start with, and which one to finish. It is important to limit changes in time so that they do not extend into the evening or night. Determine the approximate hour at which work ends so that the child knows when he will have absolutely free time to play. Stick to the established schedule and routine. The student’s body will get used to it and will be tuned in to learning activity at certain hours. During preparation, gadgets should be removed. They will attract attention and distract from the educational process. Develop independence in your child. What he can do himself does not require your presence, go to another room. It’s not good if mom or dad turns into an overseer, without whom nothing gets done. Where your support is needed, give it, but be sure to say that “Soon you will be able to do this yourself, without me, you’re already doing well!” .Don’t be shy to praise your child, don’t worry about spoiling him. Efforts should be rewarded with a kind word! If something doesn’t work out, don’t label it: “lazy”, “incompetent”, “stupid”, “stupid”, “you write like a chicken with its paw”, etc. The child will live up to the nicknames you give him. If a student is lazy and doesn’t try, it’s better to say that you are upset because you know he can do better. Talk about your feelings, and not about how “bad” he is. Instead of once again controlling the child in terms of what and how he should do, stick “reminders” on the wall, closet, where everything will be written down or indicated with funny pictures . This will instill in the student more responsibility, because here he will be able to do without you. Remove the yelling, screaming, hysterics, and your bad mood while your child is preparing assignments! Don't cripple the psyche of children! This will definitely not make your daughter and son better. Take an interest in school life and its atmosphere. Apathy towards homework can be the result of problems in the classroom, in relationships with peers or teachers. Well-spent weekends, physical activity, proper nutrition and sleep are excellent helpers in learning! Talk with the student about why it is necessary to complete tasks correctly and accurately , how this will be useful not only in the distant future, but also in the near future. Until adolescence, children are not very motivated by future work events or career growth; this is just around the corner. But the interests that exist now are significant, and the child will be ready to work for them. It is better not to motivate the completion of lessons with gadgets, money, sweets and other “benefits”. The student will want them, and not the learning process itself, gaining knowledge, improving memory. But when a child importantly, with delight and, even with ambition, names the capitals of the world, and you open your mouth in surprise - this is the highlight that will be a good incentive to acquire new knowledge further. We can summarize that the process of preparing an assignment is a task for parents: on the one hand, it is important to determine where their attentive participation, help and support is needed, on the other – where encouragement of independence and non-interference is required. Good luck to you!