When you come “to yourself,” you can allow yourself everything. Everything you really want. You don’t play with the feelings of others, you don’t play with your feelings, because you respect yourself and others. You may have to face misunderstanding, even condemnation of the fact that you are no longer playing the role of a comfortable, good, attractive person who should be liked by everyone. And it can be difficult. Allow yourself to live your life and withstand such not entirely pleasant feelings of others. But in order to realize where you may have to heal old wounds, feed, drink, warm the one who is inside you, has long needed this. Live through locked feelings, accept your imperfections, your not omnipotence, and high or low expectations. And this is a rather labor-intensive, often painful process, but no more painful than now, when you live “not yourself.” To understand whether this is your life, I use the following questions: “If you, dying, remember your life, will you be satisfied with what you have now? Or maybe it’s worth changing something? Where would you start?)?"