Response to an anonymous appeal. Nowadays, many guys grow long hair. Thanks to this, they look stylish. However, unfortunately, many parents may be categorically against such a desire for their sons. Advice 1 Prove to your parents that you you deserve to have long hair. To get your way, prove to them that you are a mature, responsible and honest young man. If they understand and see this, then it will be easier for them to allow you to have more freedom. Do not break the rules set by your parents, and behave like a responsible son. Set specific tasks for yourself, the implementation of which will show your parents that you are a responsible young man: - Always keep your promises; - Solve problems with your studies; - Be polite with your mother and father, do not be rude over various trifles. For example, you can wash the dishes, clean your room, without expecting your parents to remind you to do this. It will be easier to persuade your parents if there are no complaints about your studies or responsibilities around the house. Tip 2 Explain to your parents how important it is for you your individuality. Already in the 18th century, people understood that hairstyle is a form of self-expression. At different times there were different standards and standards of beauty. For example, the ancient Vikings wore long hair, colorful ponytails and braids, samurai partially shaved the hair on their heads and etc. In the 60-70s, long hair in the hippie style was popular. Many young people in their youth try to adhere to new fashion trends. Young people strive for self-expression and the search for their individuality. Surely your parents or grandparents, being young, definitely also sought to emphasize their individuality. Try to convey to your parents that your desire to have long hair indicates that you are not influenced by other people and are able to make decisions independently, based on your desires. In addition, let your parents know that their approval will make you happier. A hairstyle emphasizes a person’s individuality. Explain to your parents that a new hairstyle for you is a way of self-expression, on which your self-esteem and even your mood will depend. Tip 3Show them photographs of famous people who have long hair. Try to show photographs only of good and well-mannered famous people who had or still have long hair. You can mention the following famous personalities: Vladimir Presnyakov, Vladimir Kuzmin, Alexander Malinin, Brad Pitt , Johnny Depp. Look at photographs of your parents in their youth. If you find evidence, manifestations of their image, then they will be more willing to agree with your decision. Even if you do not have photographs that confirm the facts you provide, you can still prove to yours parents that they did not always agree with their parents. For example, they may have had different opinions with their parents when it came to clothes, movies, music. You should remind your parents how important these decisions were to them. Be prepared to respond to your parents, if they say you will be teased. Parents may worry that if you have long hair, people will call you a girl or imply that you are gay. Tell your parents that you are old enough to not pays attention to people's stereotypical ideas. Reassure them that you can stand up for yourself. Be prepared to respond to your parents if they are worried about other people judging them. Your parents may be worried about what others will think of them "bad parents" for allowing their son to grow long hair. Remind them that you can't please everyone, as everyone has their own idea of ​​how to raise children. Tell parents that the most important thing is that their children are safe, happy and successful. Remind mom and dad that they are very good parents and that you love and appreciate them. Ask.