From the author: Article for men People ask me questions. Many, often, different. In letters, on forums, at seminars. I'm ready for any questions! I like it when they exist. This gives a feeling of being in demand. This happened at one event for men. And I’ve probably never felt more needed. I was soaring! This is indescribable: when you are in the center, when the listeners mega-need you, when you help! By the way, an unforgettable experience - a style seminar for men! And the group is so impressive, in all respects. My listeners showed a lot of interest and thirst for knowledge about themselves and their image. It was fun, although somewhat chaotic, because IT TURNED OUT that they had wanted to ask for a long time... but they were brought together for the first time, a specialist was invited, and the men “broke through.” I was literally bombarded with questions. And these were not only questions about appearance, but also about personality traits, about communications with other people, about relationships, etc. I still remember one participant. Very brave. Because he was not afraid to find out: how to dress in such a way that: A) girls of different ages like him; B) a girl never stops liking him. In a word, how to dress in order to please everyone and never stop liking him. I then gave him the answer that known and simple in form, but not so simple in execution. I answered: firstly, to be confident in yourself and your appearance, secondly, to accept that it is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary, and ... continue to be confident in yourself , even knowing that “you will never please all the women on earth.” In general, the answer is obvious. It's a matter of execution. What to do? Feedback from me as a stylist and a woman: 1. Choose YOUR clothes: your style, your color, your styles. Clothes that decorate, correct, and highlight the best features of your appearance. In such clothes you will please yourself, and therefore most of the women who see you. As they say, “sewn with white thread”: if I like myself, others like me. How to choose your style and so on? Contact specialists, read literature on style, look for advice on the Internet. Now there is so much information that you can find the answer to your question based on your colors, styles, etc. - really! 2. Pump up confidence. Exercise every day: motivate yourself, praise, tell yourself how strong, smart, handsome, charismatic, athletic, attractive, brave, etc. you are. If you need a list of compliments, I can give you one! :)Can't you praise yourself? Hire a specialist: there are a lot of them in this topic, and they will help you with pleasure. In the end, just find a person you trust, let him praise you (friend, mom, dad, sister, bartender, gym trainer). good deeds help. He did a good deed and recorded it for himself. For example, you can record or take photos. Photos, of course, when appropriate. Taking pictures of yourself carrying your grandmother across the road is something not right... :) Or just mentally note to yourself that now you are doing great! It's like collecting colored candy wrappers as a child.3. Pump up your muscles. In general, sport is useful: you get a beautiful body and negative thoughts go away.4. Be neat. I speak from experience as a woman. I don’t like it when he’s not washed, he’s greasy, but he comes to a meeting. Understand correctly that there is a situation when, say, he’s chopping wood, all shiny with sweat, in a T-shirt, muscular... working... beautifully. And there are situations when it’s a business meeting or a date, and here you are, please, in dirty clothes and... it smells... I wasn’t prepared, it’s insulting...5. Realize yourself. Even if the job is just money, find something that suits your soul. I have a friend who loves money, both earning and collecting. Well, that is, during the day he earns the usual money, and in the evening he opens his small collection of ten-ruble notes with hero cities and admires them, adds new ones to his folder, and tells his friends about his finds. Pleasure! And another friend rides a bicycle at any time of the year and photographs the world through the handlebars. You go to him