Conflicts in the family occur for various reasons. It doesn’t matter how many people there are in the family - two or more. There are a great many reasons for disputes and conflicts. And if small, rare and short-lived conflicts only clarify the situation between each other, then a persistent conflict situation in the family can lead to various ailments of the members of this family. The most frequent requests for advice relate specifically to the desire to establish relationships among your closest contacts, in order to make life comfortable and pleasant. The main directions on how this can be done: 1. Since other people do not have the superpower to read minds, it is best to speak directly about your feelings. Of course, the form of expression of your thoughts is important. You can say even the same phrase in different ways. Try to keep the dialogue constructive. You can say how this or that feels to you, what you would expect from your family and colleagues, you can offer your own version.2. When we feel responsible for others, we often begin to act in a directive and straightforward manner. Sometimes we can even do something against the will of our loved ones, because we consider our decision or behavior to be correct, and their thoughts on this matter are only delusions. It is important to remember that other people also have the right to live their experiences, even the experience of mistakes. When they draw their own conclusions, their lives are enriched by personal experiences. Not everywhere we can spread straw for those we love.3. Even if the conflict for some reason is not completed, do not let it affect the general atmosphere. Even if you haven’t found a common denominator on ten points, then on the other two you can continue to communicate, interact and get the expected effect or pleasure. The famous couple of actors Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas stated in their marriage contract that despite the disagreements that arise, they should have sex twice a week. This example is not a role model, of course, it can only serve as an illustration of how people leave a bridge for reconciliation. What can help in each specific situation can be discussed in an individual session. Your psychologist, Natalya Dolgova You can make an appointment with me via messengers +79163129725 Course coaching study of areas of life “Spherical development»