From the author: Often married couples do not consider the option of separation, posing the question specifically “How to live after betrayal,” and not “Whether to continue living together at all.” But is this always the best solution? This is a question of questions... How much has been written, discussed, suffered, but everything hurts, hurts... Often married couples do not consider the option of separation, posing the question precisely “How to live after betrayal,” and not “Should we continue to live together?” at all". And a family psychologist does not have the right to “work for separation.” It is very difficult to give up, say goodbye to your hard-earned money. I thought that this stage in your life was already behind you, and you would have to start all over again. Who wants to return to the bottom position?...But maybe this is the only possible way to take the road leading to happiness? There is a wonderful film: “I loved her, I loved him” based on the book by Anna Gavalda. (“Chloe’s husband, Adrian leaves for another - the young woman is at a loss, she does not know what to do and how to live next. Adrian's father, Pierre, takes Chloe and her two daughters to a country house, where he tells her the story of his love, which Pierre kept secret. 20 years. A sentimental story about how differently the abandoned, the abandoned and those who once did not have the courage to leave can be unhappy...")http://melodrami.zzumer.com/ya_ee_lubil_ya_ego_lubila/The father of the husband who left the main character. , her father-in-law, says: “It’s even good that your son abandoned you. You won’t have to compromise, there will be no empty talk, forced tenderness, pretense, just to stay together.” Because once he himself failed to leave his wife and since then they are both “dead.” Both he and his wife. Is hand-to-hand combat with a partner, with his new love object, always justified? Doesn't the injured party in this struggle jeopardize his own happiness, his integrity, his ease of being? Will he, being unhappy himself, teach his children to be happy? Not to mention the happiness of those who found each other “on the side”».