From the author: KEYS to KNOWLEDGE are transmitted only in individual consultations. A possible topic for a conversation with a potential chosen one. How to determine whether this is your man? What to talk about with a potential chosen one? What common income-generating activities can you organize together with this person. You already have general agreements on important issues. And there is psychological comfort next to this person. You are pleasant to each other. The person does not drink, is aiming for a serious relationship, and is not married. It is not necessary that he declare that he is eager to start a family. It is only important that you know for sure that there is no wife. And then = your ability to have the right conversations. One of the most important criteria that this is YOUR PERSON is what kind of joint affairs you could potentially organize with him. You are not yet claiming to be family or anything like that. Easy, non-binding fantasizing on the topic “what if...”, “let’s imagine...”, “what kind of business you would like to do, organize...”, “what kind of helpers you might need “,” “Is there something you would like to organize or do?” “let’s just fantasize” This should be done at the friendship stage. You are not lovers yet. There have already been 2-3 meetings. How to determine whether this is your person or not? Only on the basis of general Affairs. Many women have this fantasy. I will find a worthy man, and the money will start pouring in to me. Where does he earn them? It doesn't bother me. The main thing for me is that he brings me a pack of bills twice a month. I don't care where you got them. Did you work for your uncle or did you have to dodge it somehow? Bring it to me. And then I will provide you with a home, comfort, life, the birth and upbringing of children. You will go to service. And I will take care of my appearance and run the household. It doesn’t work that way. Even an oligarch needs a woman with whom he can discuss some of his affairs. So get rid of illusions. Aim to conduct joint business to earn money with your future spouse. You will conduct joint activities. The man, of course, is more busy with men's affairs. Harvesting mammoths in the full sense of the word. For example, chopping wood. At the same time, you are an organizer, an assistant, a secretary, an assistant, and a manager. You, a woman, must also understand a very large number of matters. If you have experience in hired work, remember the behavior of bosses and personnel officers. You will have to master the role of managers of the entire organization. Including your family. This is unusual. This is a high level of responsibility. But this is the only way to find a worthy man now. Because a worthy man needs a worthy wife. The one that will be equal. It's just that no one needs a housewife. It is easier to pay a servant than to have such a wife. That is, in a conversation with a potential husband, when there are good friendly relations, create friendly relations. In general, I advise you to CREATE FRIENDLY relationships from your first romantic dates, when you have hooked a man as a woman, that he likes you. This is the first. When you already like each other. You show your feminine attractiveness, charisma. And when a man is ready to court you, he calls you, he shows his initiative, he is interested in you. The next stage. Smoothly transition into more friendly, personal relationships. You have common topics of conversation = what your overall earnings could be. And how could you help each other in this. Previously, men and women found each other based on a common varna/caste. Warriors looked for brides in the families of warriors. The daughter of a military man knows best how to be a military wife. Nowadays all castes are mixed. And we are obliged to develop in ourselves the qualities of all castes. To be able to eat properly, to build housing, to defend ourselves, to be able to produce a product, to be a seller and trader of our product (Vesey caste). You must own all this. Therefore, show these qualities of yours to your potential husband. Share this knowledge with your potential husband. Not in terms of moralizing! And this way it’s easier: