I propose to expand on the concept of femininity. Who is she, a feminine girl, a woman? How do I understand that I am like this? How do others see me? To begin with, I propose to take the definition of the word “femininity”. Femininity is a set of properties such as softness, tenderness, elegance. But in what exactly are these properties expressed, and how can we show, feel, understand them? Actually In fact, femininity is a state, it is how you feel about yourself. Feminine is made by appearance, certain behavior, forms of reaction in certain situations. The main problem is that if you yourself do not feel beautiful and feminine, then incomparable outfits, hairstyles, manners, reactions will not make you feminine. Based on this, we can say that femininity lives inside you, and not outside . The most important thing is to realize your definition of femininity, accept it, embody it, and then stand in front of the mirror and say: “How beautiful and feminine I am!” It is at this moment, when awareness comes, that everyone around you will begin to admire you and say: “How feminine she is!” And yet, coming to this acceptance is not so easy and often requires long-term serious work. After all, someone once gave you the definition of femininity and you follow this ideal, which in fact is not yours at all... You try, change, seem to achieve the “correct” appearance or begin to behave “correctly”, but you feel nothing does not change. In this case, you need to break the imposed stereotypes and form your own, exclusive understanding of femininity, allow yourself to live by your own rules and follow only in your own direction. After that, you will be able to move in your own direction, change consciously, or maybe remain as you are. Lose weight, dress, comb your hair, communicate in the style you like, and not what others demand. Work for yourself, for yourself and for pleasure. It is at this point that transformation and change will bring pleasure, and not hellish torment. And only this way, at some point, you will look at yourself and be amazed at how feminine and incomparable you are! Tell us in the comments - what is femininity about to you? It’s not always possible to break your wrong attitudes on your own, and at this moment a psychologist can help you figure it out and finally find your true path of beauty!