"Where are you, little one, the world is full of troubles......" with these words begins Marina Kapuro's famous song "The Gray Horse". A pleasant melody falls easily on the ear, but what is the filling? The repetitions of the song have been shortened: A gray horse gallops in an open field, Maybe someone will secretly cry for me. A blizzard has lured me into the white space Or the impermanence of the circle of life..... And in a quiet house the light will come on, And a thin voice will escape after - Where are you , small, the world is full of troubles, Oh, mummy, mummy, I’m not little anymore, Oh, mummy, mummy, I’m many years old..... Something has become creepy, in the cold it’s impossible to warm up, And under a sheepskin coat my heart freezes .Something became shaky, went wild or something, A gray horse got lost in the field...... And in a quiet house the light will come on, And a thin voice will break out after - Where are you, little one, the world is full of troubles, Oh, mom - Mama, I’m not little anymore, Oh, Mama, Mama, I’m many years old....... A gray horse gallops in an open field, A mother is always secretly crying for her son. Well, he’s lost somewhere far away, On the way to the Milky Way his trace remains...Maternal love and care are invaluable and priceless for every child, but forming a picture of the world at the level of fear - “Where are you going, little one, the world is full of troubles” - is a path to nowhere. How many such mothers are there in your environment who cover up their fear of loneliness and the feeling of being useless to themselves as children? Only belonging and sacrifice to one of their children gives them a false sense of peace. Such mothers do everything possible to ensure that their ungrown child does not leave the parental nest, is not independent, and needs care, care and financing. As a rule, such consideration is reserved for only children in the family, in the family of a single mother, or late-born children. Such children, growing up, at first make attempts to defend their right to independence, to separate from their mother, so to speak, but if the grip is strong and the strength of spirit is weak, then over time they “give up.” With respect, Your psychologist, kinesiologist Olga Fedorovna Pokormyak http://psyolia.com/ https://vk.com/club59839765