How we program ourselves Balakhonskaya G.V. Audio version of the article here https://www.b17.ru/media/68688/ First, adults program us. And then we program ourselves. It’s no secret, I think, dear friends, that when we do something, we follow some kind of program. Even when it seems that we are acting completely, so to speak, spontaneously :) Or - if you make it even stronger, it’s unpredictable :) It’s just that then it’s a program something like “toward adventure” :) Well, or something like that. But, note, it’s still your program! Although, perhaps, not fully realized :) But you still have it! Well, no matter how you look at it :)) And when it seems that there is no program, it just means that somewhere subconsciously you have programmed yourself to be a toy in the hands of others. Well, it seems like then the responsibility for your life lies with to someone else. And not on you. Because, of course, being responsible for this is such a thing... It’s not too easy. And sometimes it’s specifically difficult. But here we must admit that the responsibility, guys, is always yours! :) To whom is the responsibility? And before ourselves! The responsibility for your life is yours! And the sooner you understand this, the better. Understand that no one will live your life for you! Only by yourself! No matter how much you would like it to “somehow be on its own.” Or for someone smart to tell you which program will be right for you :) No options :)) That is, he can say it. But it’s all the same to you! These are all the decisions you make, they are yours. If If you make a decision not to make any decisions, then you make the decision “not to make any decisions.” And perhaps you breathe a sigh of relief - well, that’s it, you got rid of this burden of making decisions and responsibility for them :) But it just doesn’t work!: ) This is an illusion. And usually not for long. You still live on your own! Well, of course, you can, of course, be angry with those around you for giving the wrong recommendations. Yes, maybe they are wrong. Yes, maybe you yourself have made some mistakes. Completely independently. But anyway, whose life is it? That's it! It is clear that it is impossible to avoid erroneous decisions. Anyway, we all make mistakes from time to time. This is natural and, in general, normal. As you know, only gods are perfect :) Yes, it’s a shame to make mistakes. I want to always be satisfied with myself. Certainly! But is this real? Once upon a time, dear friends, I wrote an article. Only those who do nothing make mistakes. Therefore, remembering your responsibility to yourself, it is reasonable to consciously and meaningfully write your own programs. Well, “writing” is, of course, a metaphor. Invent. Schedule. Well, maybe literally write. An excellent option, by the way! :) Well, the topic, of course, is vast. I’ve just touched on it now :) And I think it makes sense to continue it :) And now I thank you, friends, for your attention! December 3, 2022And you can also listen to my articles in audio version. You can sign up for my consultation here on the website https://www.b17.ru/balakhonskaya/#consultation or via WhatsApp, Telegram, Viber by phone. +7 (916) 614-83-92