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From the author: Each of us, one way or another, faces the problem of lack of communication. How to get rid of loneliness? Each of us, one way or another, faces the problem of lack of communication. How to get rid of loneliness? Of course, you need to go to people. You need to get acquainted, you need to talk, you need to find interest groups. These are well-known things, but today we have a little-known topic to solve this problem. Today we will talk about the four stages of intimacy. When two people meet for the first time, they still don’t know anything about each other. The conversation does not oblige you to anything: what is your name, where are you from, what do you do? It must be said that these topics are dear to every person, so it is not difficult to maintain a conversation. This is the first stage of intimacy. Gradually the conversation moves on to topics of the second stage. This is the story of life, including marriages and divorces, children, finances. There are no common interests yet, it’s just nice to chat, get to know each other more. At the third stage, topics of the third stage are touched upon - habits, nutrition, daily routine, professional topics. Each person can talk a lot and willingly about his professionalism. There are already common interests here. As soon as the conversation moves to the topics of the fourth stage, a critical moment comes in the relationship. From this moment on, they will become truly close or break up forever. Themes of the fourth stage are those that give an emotional response. These are heart-to-heart conversations. If one talks about the experiences under the influence of which he is now, and the second resonates and sends an appropriate response, the relationship moves into the stage of intimacy. This formula is suitable for all people who dream of getting rid of loneliness. Open your heart! Don't be afraid that they will hurt you. For a relationship to become close, you need to muster up the courage and take a risk, but if you still encounter misunderstanding, then simply attribute this attempt to find a loved one to life experience. Perhaps this is just not your person! Good luck and love!