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Psychological scenarios for love relationships can vary greatly depending on what emotions, behavioral attitudes and values ​​are present in specific people. However, several general models can be identified that describe the psychology of various relationships. The first scenario is a stormy romantic episode, when the attraction between two people is maximum. In this model, people find all the desirable traits in each other, and relationships are remembered by vivid emotions, passion and physical attraction. Unfortunately, there is one unpleasant nuance in this scenario - when the emotional uplift passes, people may realize that they do not have common interests, life goals and values. The second scenario is a partnership model based on living together, equality and mutual assistance. It is important to note that in this model, people choose to play a partnering role and everyone has to contribute to the relationship. This implies respect for the achievements and interests of the other person, the ability to discuss and offer communicative solutions. The third scenario is the dependent relationship model or “I can’t live without you.” In this scenario, relationships suffer under the threat of control, violence, and dominance. People who find themselves in such relationships may feel like they are losing the rest of themselves. The fourth scenario is relationships that follow traditional social roles. At the cutting edge of tradition, there are often norms that include legality before marriage and formal marriage ceremonies. People may be negatively affected by society's circumstances if they are not consistent with their own beliefs. Regardless of the model people choose, it is important to understand that the main factor influencing the health of a relationship is respect for the other person's personality and a sense of equality . It is important to choose the relationship model that is most suitable for you and your partner. It is important to understand your needs and values, and create a couple with a partner who shares them. Sincerely, your psychologist Daria Viktorovna Lyapkalo. If you want to analyze your individual case and find a solution, then sign up for a consultation Telegram, WhatsApp +7 952 246 08 60 Sign up for a therapeutic group for people in codependent relationships (online)