When a woman is older... Or you can rephrase this message: “When he is younger.” There is even a photo of Salvador Dali with his beloved Gala with the following caption. In the photo, the artist paints Gala with paints. But isn’t this the true thrill of such a relationship? When a young husband, partner, lover, colors a woman's world. In fact, he suddenly appears, and everything around becomes “blue and green.” Moreover, a woman in adulthood seems to already know everything in advance about herself, about her partner and relationships. But another ordinary miracle happens, which can last one day, or maybe, surprisingly, last for years. And here it is very important how a woman positions herself. If she has enough intelligence and life experience to appreciate the condition that the man next to her gives her, then most likely everything will be ok. If, again and again, out of habit, she begins to slip into the position of a critic and an auditor of the partner’s actions and thoughts, then such relationships will most likely not work out, and, regardless of the age distribution of their participants. We must understand that when a woman, at any age, is determined to constantly delve and look for shortcomings in her man in advance, then most likely her prophecy is early or it will come true later. But not everyone is smart enough to rely on themselves and stop living in anticipation of perfection in relationships and ideality in a loved one. It is also important to understand that a person is not a robot, he has spontaneous feelings, unplanned emotions, and not always ideal actions . Here synthesis is much more important than analysis. Be able to rise above yourself and above the situation, try to see the life perspective not only in its development, but also in the current moment. In other words, when you feel good, rejoice and do not try to necessarily add to your hard-earned barrel of honey hidden somewhere - a fly in the ointment. This does not mean that a man can be forgiven for everything. But if we proceed from the question: why did you enter into this relationship, was it a conscious step on your part? And if the answer is positive, maintain this attitude in the future, do not voluntarily spoil your happiness, of which there is not much in life anyway💜This the article was written as part of the flash mob "Flash mob: an essay on the topic of relationships in our time" * a selection of articles about relationships: "Cunning and love"; How to build a happy relationship© Bogdanova Anzhelika, 2023 Problems in relationships, working with authors, promotion, custom texts 9103664555 Zen Channel Book "Blogotherapy" Recruiting 3 people for group work