June was an interesting month, I’m once again summing up the results of my clients. And I do this once every six months, because this is how I treat my impostor syndrome, this is how I treat the illusion of my omnipotence, this is how I treat devaluation, this is easier to show the client what has been done, this way it becomes clear in which topics I am most effective, and in some not so much. Note: If you meet a psychologist who has no cases, results, effectiveness, reviews - run. In my opinion, it turned out very interesting, because this month 2 topics turned out to be breakthrough: money and interpersonal relationships. Although , in work now there is also separation, work with self-confidence and gaining self-reliance, codependent relationships, depressive syndrome, child-parent relationships, children's fears, boundaries, sexual violence, self-realization. The topic of money has been around for a long time and I still can’t I could understand why she didn’t give in to us. It turned out that behind it, at a depth, there are sooo many pitfalls; each of my clients had their own stones. For some, it's about self-worth. It’s as if there is no confidence inside that I can afford to want-earn-spend-cost more. It's like I don't deserve to earn more. The other stone was in contact. Money comes from people, and if there is no contact, trust in people, then there is no money. It’s interesting that as soon as the realization of the real problem came, finances immediately came. The topic of relationships is very interesting and at the same time difficult for me. And, to be honest, for a long time I did not take on clients with requests for family relationships. She was afraid and referred me to her colleagues - family psychologists. Just recently, several clients approached me with the same request. I realized that it was time, that I was ready. Challenge accepted! In 60% of cases, customer requests were resolved. Of these, 50% of clients decided to leave the relationship. It became clear that being in a disharmonious, destructive, codependent relationship is impossible and even dangerous to health. 30% of requests were about difficulties in finding a partner. It turned out that as soon as a person gains experience in building the first healthy, supportive, safe relationship (with me in therapy), he finds a couple without problems. Plus, usually, to find someone, you need to understand who that SOMEONE is. 10% of clients with a relationship request were able to improve the quality of the relationship. These were clients whose relationships were in crisis. My clients managed to understand what are the stages of relationships in a couple, understand how to act, establish lost contact, live through the crisis stage, become closer and more careful to their partner) I am writing all this, but inside I am infinitely proud of my brave, my strong, bright clients. I'm glad to be with you. I am glad to share your successes. I'm happy to be here. Write these lines.