In the modern world, we are increasingly seeing women who are successful, strong, productive, constantly learning and achieving all sorts of success. A sort of HYPERFUNCTIONALISTS. It would seem great, but at the same time, next to them there is almost always a man who at the beginning of a relationship seems worthy, but in the process of communication before our eyes turns into a “fat spot on the sofa” or into a man who generally ceases to show his strength next to her. Women today are smart, and if this happens, they break up immediately so as not to suffer. But when they meet someone new, they are again faced with a repeat of the situation. What is the reason for the repeated weakness of men around you? After all, you are trying so hard!!! The basis of this strange pattern, of course, comes from parental scenarios. Often in the parental family of such a woman, it is always shown, verbally or non-verbally, that men are weaker and stupider than women. In most cases, the lack of respect for men goes through several generations. All families have their own reasons, but the most common ones are: - men in the family were alcoholics; men in the family were weak, lazy; women raised children without a man, and treated men as the worst representatives of humanity; men in the family were aggressors, and a counter-scenario came into play. Well was and was in the past, why is this being reproduced in your life? Because the basic patterns of behavior are learned by us in childhood. And these behavioral habits are often not noticeable to the woman herself and it is with them that she does not associate such a result in her life. Let's look at some of them. Rate from 1 to 10 how much you behave this way: 1. I do everything myself. He will either do everything wrong, or he won’t guess, but I don’t want to ask.2. I compare him with other men who are more successful in some area and I PILE him. For example, he is successful at work, but I compare him in the way he helps me at home and with the child. Or he is good at helping at home and doing physical work, but I constantly tell him that normal men make money in business. In general, I am always looking for something to be dissatisfied with.3. I am deprived of communication with friends. either I tell him that they are unworthy of him, or I directly destroy his communication, forbid him to communicate. Or when he plans to communicate, I get sick or make a scandal so that he doesn’t go or feels GUILTY if he goes.4. In sex, I either show him that he is doing everything wrong, or I try to avoid physical interaction.5. I often play a “caring mommy” in different life moments.6. I devalue achievements, don’t thank him, tell him what he SHOULD do and that he NEEDS to take responsibility. Rate from 1 to 10 how pronounced these habits are in your life. Add up the scores for all items. If this number is more than 10 in general, then you definitely know how to make men weak and weaklings. A truly worthy man will immediately run away from you if you treat him like this. And the one who has the prerequisites to play along with you in this scenario will disappoint you more and more before your eyes. And of course, you will again be convinced that all men are GOATS or weaklings, as your mother or grandmother once said. And you are again hyperfunctional (seemingly forced) and he is absolutely logically hypofunctional. Stop) There is another way. I invite you to the channel “Activator of Love” - practices for getting into love, warm communication - https://t.me/aktivatorlubvi I invite you to a master class “Facing yourself: the path from PAIN to LOVE” https://liliyalevitskaya.ru/reg