If in a relationship you put your partner, his desires and the fear of losing his love first, it is easy to become a victim of manipulation and lose any respect for yourself from the outside. If you hear such phrases, please think about who is next to you. 1. “You’re not normal” - to make it easier to inspire you with any nonsense, I’ll make you think that you’re not okay, and I’ll use your anger in response to my actions as proof of your imbalance.2. “It’s impossible to talk to you” - I don’t want to listen about your desires and needs, but I’m happy with sleeping with you, eating the food you cook and that’s why I don’t leave, it’s better to think that there’s something wrong with you.3. “Another person would say thank you” - I don’t value you enough to allow you to demand what you want, I’m not going to invest more into the relationship than I want myself, because I know that you’re not going anywhere.4. “I’m having a hard time right now” - I don’t want to admit guilt and take responsibility for my mistakes, so I’ll blame time and circumstances in the hope that you will pity me, but in reality I just wanted to have fun.5. “You constantly cling to me” - I’m not going to change and I won’t leave either, because everything suits me, but I don’t want to listen to discontent either, so I’ll try to make sure that you are silent, and I live on everything that’s ready.6 . “Don’t blow my mind” - I don’t want to listen to you, much less change my behavior in any way, and I don’t even hide this, and if you are about to leave, I will say that I understood everything and will even reproduce normal behavior for a couple of days.7 . “I still love you” - I know how important it is for you to hear these words and how much you are afraid of losing me, so I will say them as emotionally as possible after my mistakes, and then repeat them again.8. “You hurt me” - instead of talking or taking revenge and leaving, I will stay in this relationship, because in fact I don’t care what you do, I found a reason to cling to you and will continue to hurt you.9 . “I had my friends before you” - they and my pleasure are dearer to me than you, with them I can relax, not bear any responsibility and not solve your problems, and this will never change, because I know that you will endure everything.